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Pastoral letter February 2023

​Dear All,
As we begin 2023, we are delighted to have a baptism service this Sunday. At baptism, we tell our story of faith in Jesus, Jesus who saves us, gives us hope and calls us to follow him. The person who will be baptised is from Iran. Iranian Christians face enormous threats of persecution and yet still find faith in Christ. Her story is one of pure discipleship, her faith has led her to trust in God completely for safety and a hope of a better life here in the UK. God calls us all to follow him. God calls all people, in all places, from all backgrounds to follow him. Our responsibility is to walk in faith as He leads us. Please do pray for our baptism candidate, may her story inspire each of us to continue to point to Jesus throughout our lives.

In our weekly prayer meetings so far this year we have been looking at the Psalms, inspired by Paula Gooder's book 'Journaling the Psalms'. Psalm 40 begins with the psalmist's words: I waited patiently for the Lord, he inclined to me and heard my cry (NKJV). The psalm expresses the reality of life when things are tough, and reminds us to remember the great wonders of God while we wait for change. This year will be another year of waiting for us as a church. We will wait to finalise the sale of Grove Road. In our waiting, God is close to us, he turns to us or inclines towards us. May we look to God as we wait to redevelop our site, and may we notice his turning to us and be sustained by him. Please do join us to pray on Thursdays 8-9pm on zoom (link in weekly email).

We are happy indeed to welcome Rebecca Feo to be a deacon next month, she was elected to serve at our last Church Meeting. Rebecca has a pastoral heart for Christ Church and a faith rooted in Jesus. She has been part of our church since the 1970s and will be a great addition to our diaconate.

I will be on study leave for extended periods of time this year in order to finish my thesis on discernment. I'll be studying and away from church 13-26 February and 17-30 April. In these times, please do keep in touch with each other via our WhatsApp group. If you need to discuss anything about the church, please do contact: Clare (secretary) or for pastoral support contact Deacons Ola  or Diana phone numbers are in the directory or physical newsletter!
 
Please do pray for me, it's enjoyable research but tough and demanding to make sure such a big piece of work is well written and gets done!
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God's richest blessings
Ruth

Pastoral letter - January 2023

Dear Brothers & Sisters,
Happy New Year. I hope you had a good Christmas and managed to enjoy our Advent and Christmas services either in person at church or online.
 
January is a suitable time to look back on the past year, thank God for all He had done and, think about what went well and could be built upon. It is also a time to correct or change things that have not measured up to our expectation, where possible. Which is why people tend to make New Year resolutions in January.
 
There were good things that we could keep or build on. For example: The live streaming of all services which has made our worship more accessible. The regular communion every 1st and 3rd Sunday of the month. The monthly church meeting, the insertion of the minutes’ notes in the monthly newsletter, the weekly church e-mail, and the WhatsApp group all of which had helped our communication with one another. We marked all the Special Sundays of the year and enjoyed the church lunches. Easter was extra-special with the inclusion of a Baptism. Our on-line profile had increased, and our church website is one of the best around. And donation to the church on-line using our PayPal account.
 
There are things we can thank God for - For example: our very initiative-taking minister, Revd. Ruth Moriarty; Diana Bensted & Robert Mapara for our Website and live-streaming. The church Secretary, Clare Jenkins for excellent communication. The Premises committee who looks after our premises. The Deacons who do various things to support the minister. Anne Petts and Jane Gibbins who serves us hots drinks after worship. We thank Him for the church that is steadily growing. Last but not the least, we thank Him for the approval of Beverly’s building plans which means we can move forward with our building project. Add your own thank you to the list.
 
I do not believe in New Year resolution as it usually gets thrown out of the window by the end of January. Instead of resolutions, let us make a conscious decision to improve on certain things this year, using Philippians 4:13, to propel you. ‘I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.’ Try making a conscious decision to be more involved with other church fellowship activities and not just the Sunday worship. For example, to attend the monthly TOAST prayer meeting, every first Sunday of the month at 9a.m.; To join the Bible Study every Thursday night on Zoom at 8p.m; To read the bible and pray at a dedicated time every day; To be more involved generally in all the activities of the church and of course any other thing you will like to improve upon.
 
We do not know what 2023 holds for us. However, we know that ‘-- nothing will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.’ Romans 8:39. Let us go boldly forward with Jesus, our Sustainer and Provider in this 2023 in the power of the Holy Spirit doing all we can to build His Kingdom on earth as it is in heaven.
 
I wish you all a wonderful 2023, full of God’s joy, peace, and good health.                                                                                      
Ola Lawal
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Pastoral letter - December 2022

Waiting for God
 
The waiting we have done at Christ Church is not like waiting for a bus to arrive on a winter's day, it’s not like waiting for exam results, it’s not even like waiting for your prince to arrive. The waiting we have done is waiting for God. 
 
Waiting for plans to be drawn up
Waiting for plans to be agreed
Waiting for plans to be amended 
Waiting for reports to be made and submitted
Waiting to draw down funds
Waiting for listed buildings committees to start and finish
Waiting for synod to meet
Waiting for synod to vote and grant
Waiting for surveyor’s reports
Waiting for a buyer with a good price
Waiting for lawyer’s bills
Waiting for Enfield council planning department
Waiting for Enfield planning committee
Waiting for Enfield planning committee
Waiting for Enfield planning committee
 
I’ve been here only 5 years, and pretty much all we’ve done is to be in a perpetual state of waiting. 
 
It’s probably a good thing too, because there is more waiting coming. Waiting for Section 106 to be finalised with our buyer and planning department, waiting for judicial review for this is a major development. 
 
But now we wait with the certainty that we have planning permission to be able to sell Grove Road. We have gone through to the next waiting room which actually means something will happen. We’ve moved out of the zigzag rope lines and into the official waiting area. 
 
In the season of Advent, we are reminded that as part of the people of God; it is in our DNA … in our very bones, to wait on God. And as the people of God, we wait on God for change. For too long the people had longed for light, longed for hope from the oppression of the Romans – and all the oppressors before them.
 
The God we hope in is great, and worthy to be praised, he is mighty to act, the splendour of his majesty is glorious, and that makes us sing in thanksgiving to God. 
 
The outpouring of every Christian heart is worship. Every heart that is sad should lament his troubles before God. Every heart that is anxious should intercede for her situation. Every heart that is joyful should praise God. 
 
We wait because we know God is great, we wait because we know he is faithful. Our waiting has been demanding but it has shaped us as a people who are desperate for God’s light, desperate for change in our world. To John the Baptist, God spoke, and he said: prepare the way. Now is the time. Christ Church may our Advent come, and may we give glory to the only God whose plans are waiting for. As we prepare to celebrate Christ coming to this world, may we remember afresh that God is present with us in this time of celebration today and all the waiting that is still to come, for we wait for God, our great and glorious God. 
 
Blessings Ruth
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Pastoral letter - November


I had the privilege of leading the service on Sunday 30th October.  The reading in the Lectionary was Luke 19: 1-10, Jesus and Zacchaeus.  A story that you probably know of a short man climbing a sycamore tree to get a better view of Jesus coming to his town of Jericho.  I always find it difficult when approaching a familiar story.  We often have preconceptions of what the story means so I had a good dig about the internet to see what I could find!

Most articles talked about Zacchaeus being a sinner – a Jew who turned against his community by being a tax collector, who was saved and turned his life around after meeting Jesus.  This strikes me as being a bit of an easy interpretation – but then why was it the last story in Luke before Jesus enters Jerusalem?  Why so important? 

There were others which took a different view, and talked about the original tense that this passage was written in, where Zacchaeus says to Jesus that he always gives half his wealth to the poor and if there is a discrepancy he repays fourfold.

Have we misjudged Zacchaeus?  Was he a different kind of tax collector?  Was it the crowd that was wrong, imagining that ALL tax collectors were the same?  Did Jesus see the good man – and to emphasise that - invited himself to dinner? 

Do we do the same?  Do all Politicians lie, are all lawyers just in it for the money?  Are all Grunge artists violent?

I watched the interview of Stormzy by Louis Theroux (on BBC iPlayer) - be warned there is some swearing.  However, there is a part of the interview where Louis accompanies Stormzy to a monthly worship session with his sister and his mum.   He talks about how during the pandemic when he was on his own.  He was still, and he recognised ‘oh wow, this is what it is like to pray, this is what scripture means.’  And he also said ‘this is where I’m meant to be around people who don’t care about whatever it is that the world thinks I am, the man who I wanna be is this man.’ the Implication is the man of faith.

We finished on Sunday (after the livestream had ended) with the BBC Glastonbury coverage.  Blinded by Your Grace Pt2.  Where the whole of Glastonbury were singing along – and Stormzy was praying – such an example to us in our day to day lives – working, at school, with friends or family, when we are with people, do they even know we believe in God?  Could you tell even one more person that you meet this month? 

I end this letter with his chorus

Lord I've been broken
Although I'm not worthy
You fixed me
I'm Blinded, By Your Grace
You came and saved me

I said a prayer this morning
I prayed I would find a way
To another day, I was so afraid
'Til you came and saved, you came and saved me
And the rain was pouring, 'cause the sun faded away
Now I'm in a better place, no longer afraid
Blinded By Your Grace, you came and saved me, yeah
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Diana Bensted

Pastoral Letter October 2022

As I write this letter, I am preparing for Swingboat to premier and we wait for Grove Road to sell. I was not sure which to write about and then I realised there is a connection – no – really – bear with me on this. 
 “Swingboat” is a brand new musical written by Paul Wardrop-Day and David Peston which the Life & Mission Choir will be premiering on the first weekend of October. It is a re-telling of the story of Noah. During one of the rehearsals trying to work out staging and tech stuff, which took 4 hours and the choir was not involved much, we were sat around a LOT - So that is waiting.
 I realised one bit of the flood story suits our situation at the moment. The rain lasted 40 days and nights but then they all had to wait for the land to dry and that took longer.
Genesis 7
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24 The waters flooded the earth for a hundred and fifty days.
 The thing that I noticed was that this is near 4 times as long as it rained. That must have felt even longer.
 You see the other thing I was going to write about was how we are nearing the end of our period of waiting and that we would know a decision on Grove Road and therefore the speed of our development soon. I even wrote a paragraph saying that, but I have had to delete that.
 Now we find that there is a further delay. The developer and Enfield Council are going to take more time before a decision is made on the development of Grove Road. This is very hard to take. There seems to be delay after delay and it feels like an ever-disappearing goal. This can be very disheartening.
 However, we must not lose sight of our goal – to give glory to God in our community here. We must focus on developing an active, functioning, attractive community of people who strive to be the Light of Christ in our area. 
Clare Jenkins

Pastoral letter September 2022

Hello again Everyone, Dearest Friends,
We hope you have had a very good summer. My, it has been very hot! – in fact the hottest temperatures in London and the South East ever recorded. We seem to be experiencing more unprecedented events than ever before. First the Pandemic, then temperature rises, lack of rainfall, raging fires across a baking UK and Continent of Europe. But we have endured, on the whole, holding on to our Faith and Hope in Jesus.

We are being promised a continuing rise in the cost of living and heating bills look like they will be astronomical. Those raising children will be hardest hit and the elderly.

As a teacher for 45 years prior to my retirement I was always aware and fascinated by children’s progress, particularly in those who had English as their second language. From Nursery teaching to young teenagers those particular children progress rapidly and often overtake their indigenous peers (that is unless they had special needs).

We all know children need a lovely family background but many do not experience this due to many varied events in their lives. Some children are unfortunate enough to be born to mothers and fathers who literally do not want them, or can’t cope or treat them violently and cruelly. Some children lose a parent when young or a parent leaves the family. All those happenings have a dire effect on children, a sense of isolation, rejection, and anxiety may take hold.  One boy I knew from a “well-off” family began to paint black pictures and paintings. His parents had separated and it was all very bitter and acrimonious.  Another child was taken away from home to be fostered as a toddler. The family could not cope with the children they already had. That child missed his sisters so much that he could not talk till he was 5 years old. The foster parents were wonderful and he’s a strapping charming young man now.

I’ve witnessed this sort of happening enough times to write a book!
It reminds me of St. Paul’s letter Romans 8:38-39.
” And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love.  No power in the sky above or in the earth below—indeed, nothing in all creation will ever be able to separate us from the love of God that is revealed in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
So please do not let us separate from our friends and families, and all our Church congregation. Do not make anyone feel isolated, we are one body of Christ’s Church.

I think it is wonderful that we have friends at Church who have attended our Church for years AND now we are drawing ever closer to our new members. May God pour his Holy Spirit upon each and every one of us.

We have already begun decluttering, fasting and praying that Enfield Council will agree to the application which is going to be heard very soon regarding Grove Road development. Then if our prayers are answered we will be able to start on our development of a “new” Church Hall linking us from oldest to old Christ Church (The hall was “the Church”, before the main Church was built).
How marvellous that will be! Our Church is growing and we will endure, we pray! Amen.
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Anthea Denham

Pastoral letter June 2022

Dear Brothers & Sisters,
Summer is here again, and we can start to think of taking proper holidays with no restrictions. Praise God for His mercies. I am hoping we will see visitors on holiday in the church, just as the churches in the areas you visit will see you in exchange.

I love travelling and one of the things I try doing on holidays is to visit the local church. It is interesting that the core of the worship in the churches in Europe and North America I visited is the same. I may not understand the language. The worship may be sombre or loud, but all their worship included prayer, bible reading and singing/chanting. Many of the churches served communion but not to everyone. The Catholic church I visited did not serve me communion as I belong to a different denomination.

Then there are countries where there is hardly any church in sight just mosques, as observed in the middle east, or Buddhist temples as observed in the Southeast Asian countries.

My observations gave me two lightbulb moments. One, it is better to find a church, despite the language barrier or no communion than not at all. Two, it made three bible passages clearer. Ephesians 4:5, ‘There is one Lord, one faith, one baptism;’ Romans 12:5, ‘so we, who are many, are one body in Christ, and individually members one of another’; and Matthew 18:20, ‘Where two or three are gathered in my name, I am in the midst of them’. The key is to see ourselves as part of the body of Christ, one Church.

These to me are especially important where a church is in Local Ecumenical Partnership (LEP) of two or more churches like ours. In my visits as a Lay Preacher some of the LEP churches continue to use both denominations’ liturgy and hymnbooks. There is nothing wrong with remembering one’s roots. However, such churches can easily start to focus more on denominational practices which may result in disunity. Our focus as one church is to live and to share out the good news of Jesus Christ. I am proud that our church has tried to operate as one since becoming an LEP. We should continue to strive to be one church. Trying to be one church should help to increase our unity and the love for one another to wax stronger. It should also help God’s light to shine brightly amongst us.

Our church’s vivid welcoming light and love will be noticed by our visitors, which may help to draw them closer to Jesus Christ. The gospel we proclaim will feel more real. It may also help them not just to accept Jesus Christ as Lord and Saviour but to start spreading the good news further afield than we could ever imagine. Meaning I may yet visit those places with hardly any churches one day, and find one to visit.

Interestingly, denomination was not one of the descriptions of the great multitudes in Revelations 7:9, It simply said they were from every nation, tribe, people, and language. I pray for God to grant us all we need to endure until the end and to be part of these eternal great multitude in the Kingdom of heaven. Amen.

Ola Lawal

Pastoral Letter May 2022

We have been thinking about the first disciples as we have listened to Ruth’s sermons over Easter. How did this group of men (and the group of women there too) go from being frightened and in a locked room to confident to preach to many and to travel around to tell people the Good News?

I was drawn to thinking about what Discipleship means, so I looked the word up in an online dictionary:
Discipleship [ dih-sahy-puhl-ship ] noun
1 the condition or situation of being a disciple, a follower, or a student of some philosophy, especially a follower of Christ: The priest was known for his lifelong discipleship to St. Thomas Aquinas.
2 the group of original followers of Christ in His lifetime: The key to Jesus' discipleship was his personal trust in his disciples.

A follower or student of someone - in this case Christ - means that you need to be learning all you can about that person and spending as much time as you can in their presence. This is exactly what the early disciples did as they spent time with Jesus. We do not have the luxury of being with Jesus in person but we still do have ways to get to know him better. Some of these are alone - private bible study and prayer, for example. And some are in community with other believers, such as meeting together for bible study, prayer and fellowship.

What ways do we have as a church to encourage each other to grow as Disciples of Jesus?

We have a weekly bible study and prayer meeting on zoom (on Thursdays), services on Sunday, junior church teams to teach our young people, as examples.

What else can we do to encourage each other to be disciples of Jesus? Does anyone else have any ideas of something that would help them grow as a Christian that we as a church can help with? If you do, please let one of the Deacons know!

I also thought of the things we have done as a church recently that have helped me learn more about Jesus and being his disciple. I suppose I will start just before Lent when we had a lovely shared meal in the Hall. Where people stood around, sat or, in the case of some of the younger people present, ran around and spent time talking with each other. We will be having another shared lunch for Christian Aid on Sunday 22nd of May. Please bring food if you are able - but you are welcome just as you are - which is just as Jesus welcomed people into his presence.

We have had our first joint service with St Paul’s Church New Southgate, which is located just next door to the hall we are trying to sell at the moment. We started our Good Friday service at Christ Church and prayed for the world and those things concerning each one of us. And then we walked along the main road as one big gaggle of people. Making a very clear witness to the people that saw us praying at different locations along our route. There was then a service of communion at St Paul’s. Both these services reminded me of how we get used to one way of doing something and do not think it odd until we are asked why we do that by someone who does not normally do it in that way.

Saturday morning was spent helping fill the baptistry - 3 hours it takes! And then a similar amount of time after the baptism to empty and dry the pool. Anyone who would like to learn how this is done is welcome to join us the next time we use the baptistry. And if you do want to be baptised talk to Ruth!

Easter Sunday was a lovely celebratory day - Fiona was baptised, Ola had a birthday with a round number and the children searched the hall for Easter Eggs. A very busy but very joyous day. Thank you to all who took part.

Another point about the early disciples was they did things together - like eat meals. Which we can also do by joining the Christian Aid meal on 22nd May or by hosting our own fundraising meals at home with friends or family. We can get together to tidy up our church both inside and out - there is a lot of work still to do before we can re-develop our site. Again, better done together. We can join together in societies like the Women’s Club or join our online bible study.

I just thought ‘Better Together’ but then checked online and that was the name of the anti-Scottish independence campaign so maybe we need to find another name - or reclaim that slogan.
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Christ Church - Better Together!

Clare Jenkins

Pastoral Letter April 2022

As I write this letter, I look back to the last time I wrote which was April last year! We were preparing for our first in person service which was Easter Sunday. I remember working out how we could continue our online presence broadcasting live from church.
We duly set up, with my mobile phone, Ruth’s mike, my laptop, sitting at the front of church, and we just had a communion service of 22 minutes, it seems like a lifetime ago, and yet it was 11 short months.

Since then, we have installed professional equipment, and have a routine for the tech at the back!
We have 120 online services, including two baptisms, a wedding, and a funeral, all of life is represented. There are Christmas and Easter services, Pentecost, and Advent, what is wonderful is that if anyone wants to find out about us as a church – they just now need to visit our Youtube channel and can see what we are all about!

We can see God in all of this, our Church has expanded, we have new visitors, who become friends, and part of our church, and we look forward to the development of our site even as we pray about the almost inevitable delays!

But what I would like to ask you now is:
How Great is YOUR God?
‘To whom will you compare me?
Or who is my equal?’ says the Holy One.
Lift up your eyes and look to the heavens:
who created all these?
He who brings out the starry host one by one
and calls forth each of them by name.
Because of his great power and mighty strength,
not one of them is missing.
Isaiah 40: 25-26 (NIV)

Sometimes God can seem very far away, or small like he isn’t part of our whole life – just something we do on Sunday, then put in our pocket for the rest of the week.

We need to challenge our small view of God and refocus on the limitless, almighty massive God. To do this we look at scripture, and regain the sense of awe and wonder, that is always in there in the bible - it might only be a hint, nudge or flicker of an image, a part of God’s awesomeness in any passage, but over time we can regain a sense of his enormity, still we will not see all of him, as He is far too vast and complex.

A couple of example passages you might like to look up are:
Romans 11: verse 33
Job 11: 7-9
Jude 1: 20 – 25

We can go back to scripture to remind ourselves that God is Omnipotent; all powerful, Omnificent; all knowing, and Omnipresent; everywhere at the same time. To make ourselves aware that we create a smaller God in our minds, and to make a conscious decision to change that.

Then we can pray bigger – ask for the improbable or what seems impossible, but also thank this amazing God who created us all, all our skills are gifts from God and we should thank him every day.

And to end with this prayer which is from Ephesians 3: 14-21
For this reason I kneel before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth derives its name. I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith.
And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge – that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, and according to his power that is at work within us.
To him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations,
For ever and ever!
Amen.

Blessings
Diana 

Pastoral Letter March 2022

The Power of Prayer
Dear Friends of Christ Church,
I pray you are all well and able to cope with the wet and very windy winter. At least so far, we, cuddled up in the South east, have not seen any of the white stuff! Snow looks so stunning at first and magical but the disruption and the mess as it melts is not so lovely! We pray you all kept safe during Storm Eunice and all the other recent storms.

Well Spring is surely on the way now it is March as the clocks go forward by one hour on 27th March early on that Sunday morning. How great to see the lighter nights that will be!

We’ll begin our Lent course on Thursday 3rd March at 8p.m. on Zoom for week 1. Please ask Clare for a Lent book which will guide us through 6 weeks until Easter. These booklets cost £3 and I can highly recommend it to you all. Please join us, if possible. Ruth will lead us, with prayer, readings and discussion.

At the very end of December, I went in my car to my Chiropodist. I parked in a car park close to his clinic. When we came out my car refused to start. The battery was flat.
Chris said, “Oh no, what shall we do?” I replied, “Just a minute and I sent up a prayer, Dear God please help us, we’re stuck here and stupidly left the mobile at home”.
Within minutes, while Chris walked to a nearby petrol station, a driving instructor was teaching his pupil to park in bays and to line up, dangerously close to mine! “Can I help you?” he said. He declared it was a flat battery, but had to drive off to continue his lesson. Another man parked up, “I think I’ve got jump leads”. He searched in his boot amongst flower pots and all sorts. “So sorry, they must be in my garage at home”.
Soon, another man appeared, “Shall I call the AA for you?”, which he did. The chiropodist had already tried to phone them when all this palaver began. It’s not as it used to be now, call the AA and you’re through, Oh, no, it’s “Go on line or wait indefinitely!
Then a friend I had not seen for over a year, walked past the car park and came over to say hello and have a chat. When she knew we were stuck, she lent us her phone and we called my son-in-law who came straight away with jump leads and we were away home in 15 minutes! God sent so many kind people quickly!
Sometimes God answers prayers rapidly, when it’s an emergency. In my case unable to walk to a garage, mind you, one was closed and the other sold jump leads but no car to help us!

At other times, God seems to take a long time to answer prayers, whether it’s about reconciling with a relative, an illness or any other petition. But I know God is listening. He knows when the prayer will be acted on be it a couple of years for it to happen.
In my case I prayed for 10 years from 1990 to 2000 that my marriage would be resolved and my husband return home to his family and me. It never happened despite promises and counselling. Now I know that it was God’s plan to keep me happy and contented and feeling secure.

So please pray daily, my dear friends, for God knows what is the right and merciful way for you. Do not give up hope but persevere.
“Here my prayer, O Lord, and let my cry come unto thee”.Psalm102v1.

“Hide not thy face from me in the day when I am in trouble; incline thine ear unto me: in the day when I call answer me speedily” v2.
Be prepared to wait patiently and see how life unfolds and prayers are finally answered or not, accordingly to his will.

Wishing you all a beautiful March. May God Bless and keep you all in his Loving Arms.

Anthea Denham

Pastoral Letter February 2022

Lent has been a traditional time in the church to give up or fast as part of a deepening in discipleship in anticipation of Easter Day. The period reflects the time of testing Jesus faced in the desert in preparation for his ministry. By giving up chocolate, or another treat we are encouraged to focus on God and the Spirit's presence in our lives.

It is also a great time to take up a new spiritual habit. Often in the early church, it was the time of preparation for baptism. We encourage you to consider taking part in our Lent programme this year as we prepare for Easter. Our prayer is that each of us might grow and develop our faith in Christ more and more.

Carnival lunch - Sun 27 Feb 2022 after the service
We will host a bring and share lunch in the church hall the Sunday prior to Lent. Please bring some food to share with others. There will be a play space set up for children. Please label food for allergens and if you wish to bring hot food, please bring it in a slow cooker.

Journeying through Lent
Following on from the success of our Lent 2021 last year, we have selected another book to share together for 2022. 'Journeying through Lent' is written by the Bible Reading Fellowship. The book provides daily readings (2 March-17 April) for us each to read at home with space to reflect and pray as well as a group discussion track. The book will be available shortly from church at £2.75 each. Please do let Clare know if you would like a copy.

Lent prayer group
Every Thursday in Lent we will use the Journeying through Lent material to discuss the bible and to lead us in prayer. Please do join us on Zoom for this meeting at 8-9pm beginning 3 March. The zoom link is in our weekly email.

Blessings Ruth

Pastoral Letter January 2022

Happy New Year - Welcome to 2022
It is again an unusual time as we move into 2022 - we do not know if more restrictions will be encouraged or not. People have different ideas on what is the safest way to behave for our society. All is very unclear. Moving forward into the unknown is, however, not unusual for us as Christians. But we do have the advantage of a purpose and a goal. To walk in the way of our Lord Jesus.
Things have changed in the last year - as often, some for the better and some for the worse. Our challenge as individuals and the Church is to identify the good from the bad (and ignore the ugly). 

One thing that is clear is the importance of being a worshiping community in our local environment has not been diminished. Our ways of reaching out to the community have altered and will continue to change. But the need for an active Christian presence is clear.

One-way various Christian groups have used to project an active Christian presence is producing songs on videos. We have been using some of these in our services. There are issues with making sure that we are giving the correct acknowledgment of these peoples work, either in copyright licencing or other ways. This means that we cannot always livestream the final song in a service. We give thanks for so many talented people who have made use of their gifts in this way.

The Life and Mission Choir, who meet to rehearse on our premises, produced online carols weekly during Advent on their YouTube channel (The Life and Mission Choir)
Come, see the beauty of the King
O Little Town of Bethlehem
You are the way
The Lord came amongst us

These were filmed in our Church Sanctuary. I (unfortunately) had other commitments on the days that the filming was happening, but Diana and Pennie have starring roles. See who else you can identify.

The choir are one of many differing groups that meet in our buildings during the week. Moving forward we want to make our buildings fit for purpose and useful for the worshipping community into the future. We are moving forward with our development plans and the Development Group are about to ask builders for tenders for the work. Whilst this is exciting there will also be trying times in the year ahead as we start looking for builders to help us achieve our vision.

We all need to pray for the right decisions to be made in this process.

We as a Church community always have opportunities for people to help his work. If there is anything that you would like to do or way you wish to help our community, please let one of us know and we will see what we can achieve together. Everyone has skills that can be useful in building the Lords community here on earth!

Clare Jenkins

Pastoral Letter December 2021

HOLDING ONTO HOPE
ADVENT 2021

Hope is a startlingly beautiful Advent theme that appears across all the readings included in services in the run up to Christmas. Last week we considered the hope that the prophet Jeremiah offered as God's word to his people. This week we look to John the Baptist who as a messenger for God prepares the way ready for Jesus Christ to enter the world as a baby. Jesus coming into our world gave hope to the oppressed people of God of a new Kingdom.

Every Advent I read a new Christian author on the theme of Advent. This year is the turn of Fleming Rutledge's 'Advent: The Once and Future Coming of Jesus Christ'. It is a collection of sermons from Rutledge's pastoral ministry as an Episcopal priest in the USA. Here she writes on the theme of hope in the Christian faith:

'We need to understand the difference between optimism and hope. Optimism often arises out of denial of the real facts; hope, however, persists in spite of the clearly recognised facts because it is anchored in something beyond.'

As I write, we are trying to plan our family Christmas. Will we be able to meet with our extended family on Christmas Day? I'm optimistic but know from all we've learnt in the past two years that things may change, especially with new virus variants at play.
My hope is in Christ who is present with us by the Holy Spirit who is always available, always present and always brings peace. I'm hopeful in his return too, that one day he will put right all that is wrong in our world. I have this hope in faith, to say Christ has died, Christ has risen, Christ will come again.

In Advent and especially this Advent, we hold onto the hope of Christ alone and if Christmas plans are changed again, he will sustain us through this and all that is to come. Hold onto the hope of Christ and know his peace.

Blessings Ruth

Pastoral Letter November 2021

PSALM 104:24-31 (“The Message”)
What a wildly wonderful world, God! You made it all, with Wisdom at your side, made earth overflow with your wonderful creations….and all the creatures…. The glory of God – let it last forever! Let God enjoy his creation!

Hello everyone, hasn’t it been windy lately! While waiting in my car I was fascinated and amused by a pile of leaves caught up against a high wall. They flew round and round ever faster like a whirlpool and then rose together, fluttering free and separated up high, until they glided back down into a pile of leaves again.

Autumn is well and truly here! We are fortunate to have recognisable seasons, so far! The yearly cycle continues – mostly without too much freakiness. However, we’ve all experienced times of intense heat and more rain causing flash flooding. In other parts of the world, they are suffering extremes of high temperatures, forest fires sweeping and raging in the most unexpected places, extreme droughts and devasting floods. The temperature of the oceans is rising and there will be very serious consequences.

I recall this from Psalm 24-1: “The earth is the Lord’s and all that is in it, the world and all who live in it.”

Desperate times means desperate measures must be sought. At the beginning of the month of November the long-awaited climate change summit will be held in Glasgow where many world leaders and authorities on the subject will meet. We hope they will be progressive talks and, more importantly, with real determination followed up by real Action to cut our carbon emissions effectively.

Many of our young people learn about the effects of climate change in school becoming enthusiastic and so aware. Greta Thunberg, the Swedish teenage activist, has been trying for some years now, to wake up world leaders to the looming inevitable events to come.

“Human beings”, she observes, “are very adaptable”. She believes that innovative and brilliant inventions could avoid an ecological catastrophe. However, she warns that these ideas and the opportunity to act will not last long and that we must start TODAY. We are running out of excuses she says.

It was great to watch Prince William, launch the “Earthshot prizes”, of one million pound awards, for brilliant actions across the world to help save our amazing planet from irreversible harm.

Our Government’s plans to irradicate gas boilers, after a set date, pretty far off, and make way for heat pumps to keep our homes warm. But another person Eco-entrepreneur Dale Vince says this may not be needed if farmers were encouraged to grow more grass to make green gas instead!

So, we live in hope and know God will be there to guide leaders and uphold them with His wisdom. We ask God to forgive us for abusing his wonderful creation, the loss of species and habitats, for our selfish reasons of wanting more Palm Oil, or whatever. We’ve all been urged to plant more trees which will store carbon and give us much needed oxygen and clean air. All this brings me back to where I began with trees and leaves falling fast this autumn.

Yours prayerfully and hopefully God Bless you all and keep safe.

Anthea Denham

Pastoral Letter September 2021

This letter should be being read when students are returning to university or school and those that can are going away on a cheaper holiday. It is the season when our groups re-start if they have taken a summer break, but this year some groups will re-start after 18 months break due to COVID. This means this really feels like a season of new starts.

We, as Deacons, have planned a new activity for us to start in September and that is a weekly prayer meeting on Zoom. We have chosen on Zoom as this means that travelling time to Church is removed, as is the need for lifts and/or childcare. We do hope and pray that you will be able to join in at least some of these sessions on a Thursday at 8pm for 1 hour. 

I wanted to find a suitable Bible verse to encourage us all to support each other through this changing time, but got distracted into reading Proverbs - not advisable! However, I eventually got back on track and was looking in this section from the end of 1 Thessalonians 5 that I think speaks to us at this time.

13b Live in peace with each other. 14 And we urge you, brothers and sisters, warn those who are idle and disruptive, encourage the disheartened, help the weak, be patient with everyone. 15 Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always strive to do what is good for each other and for everyone else. 16Rejoice always, 17 pray continually, 18 give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

I am writing this letter before going away on holiday. We are going to Brixham in South Devon for the second year running. Where we are staying is close to All Saint’s Church which plays 3 hymn tunes on their Church bells daily at 8pm. This is because their first curate was Henry Francis Lyte, who wrote various well-known hymns including the following
Praise, my soul, the King of Heaven;
To His feet thy tribute bring.
Ransomed, healed, restored, forgiven,
Who like me His praise should sing:
Alleluia! Alleluia! Praise the everlasting King.
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And I get to play guess that hymn tune to Church bells! He lived in a large house near-by which is now a hotel and does coffee and tea on the terrace looking over the sea. I plan to walk there and have a coffee and take in the view. I hope and pray that we can support each other as things hopefully become more ‘normal’ and re-open.

Clare Jenkins

Pastoral letter July/August 2021

Well, it seems a very long time since I wrote a pastoral letter and so many things have changed in the last year.  Many of us have been affected by COVID 19, either directly or indirectly and many people have suffered by being isolated, while health issues continue to be a problem.  But one of the many good things to come out of “close down” has been the benefits of technology.  Not only have we increased our contact by phone to friends and neighbours, church friends and family but those who have not used Skype before have been thrilled by the gift of Zoom that enabled several of us to see each other during prayer time after receiving the prepared service on line.
 
Christ Church has now installed cameras to enable us to live stream our services on-line. Songs and hymns are available to us in church and on-line at the same time, although we are not allowed to sing along until further notice.  How marvellous it was to be able to join together and watch and listen to the service from the Baptist Assembly; 20,000 streams were recorded.  Shaun Congun was particularly good with his sermon of life in Philadelphia with references to the stories from the bible particularly “You without sin may throw the first stone.”
 
In this past year we have been able to enjoy two weddings even though the guests had to be regulated by the COVID guidelines the service was also streamed on-line. How marvellous to enable these couples to pledge themselves to each other before God.  We also had a blessing at Christ Church.  So, the work of the Lord continues and cannot be thwarted by viruses sad though it has been for many people these passed months, may we celebrate the time when we may join together again in person in the not too distant future to praise and glorify the Lord for all his blessings.
 
Our Minister Ruth Moriarty has been working tremendously hard over these past months with the help of the Deacons and others.  Soon we shall hear a summing up of the past two years at the Annual General Meeting. 
 
Like many people the lockdown has given us time to look at where we stand and prepare to build on what we have. The future has always been an unknown but with our faith in our Lord Jesus Christ and with His help and guidance we can work together to build our Church into a powerful presence within this community.
 
Sue Rogers
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Pastoral Letter June 2021


One of the tasks of a Church Secretary is to give the notices in Church, or so I thought, I have yet to do this as Church Secretary. Another role is to report at an AGM - this I will be doing soon. The Deacons have decided to host an Annual General Meeting after the service on Sunday, 25 July 2021. At this meeting the previous year is reviewed with the main events highlighted and we remember those people in our congregation who have been baptised, dedicated, joined in membership or died in the period under review.
 
Our Church year for these meetings runs from 1 April to 31 March. Those more observant will have realised that we did not have an AGM last year either, as we were unable to hold meetings when we would normally have our AGM (a Sunday in May - often on one of the 2 Bank Holiday weekends). Everyone is welcome to attend and hear what has been happening over the last 2 years.
 
We are also organising another Church picnic on Sunday, 27 June after Church (12.30-2pm) in Princess Manor Park near the water tower. If it is very wet, we can use the hall. We held a Church picnic last year and this seemed to be well received so we aim to try this again. Please remember to bring your own food.
 
The other new task I have as Church Secretary is sending out the Church email on a Saturday. This varies in the time I remember to do it! as you might have noticed. We are now sending out to 54 people every week. If there is anyone else who should be on the recipient list or you wish to be removed, do please let me know.
 
Whilst there are advantages to electronic communications and emails, I think we are all missing person to person contact - I certainly am. So, I might email 54 people on Saturday and receive 6 - 12 emails booking seats each week; there are many people I do not see or hear from. This will mean some cautious and caring catching up when we do meet up again. So, many things may have happened, so many different experiences that we each may have had. 
 
I just remind us all (me included) to make use of our Church directory and take the time to call, or arrange to meet up with, people we have not seen for a while. Being mindful that everyone’s experience has been different. But all working together to build each other up in the love of God.
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Clare Jenkins
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Pastoral Letter May 2021

Dear Friends,
I hope you are all well by the grace of God. It is so lovely that we can worship again in Church and some singing is allowed, albeit by the choir for now.
It was not the same seeing faces on Zoom or on line compared to in flesh, but glad we were able to see one another in one form or the other. Thank you to our Minister, Revd. Ruth Moriarty, our new Church Secretary, Clare Jenkins and our IT guru, Diana Bensted for their wisdom and gifts which had helped us to stay in touch as a Church. It had been wonderful to see many of you doing one thing or the other during the yearlong on-line services. At a stage the highlight of my weekend was wondering whose face I will see on each Sunday and hearing John Moriarty playing his saxophone. Thank you, John.
The 12noon Zoom chat and prayer on Sunday afternoons helped me tremendously to cope with the groundhog weeks of the first lockdown especially. It reassured me I belonged to a Church that loves and cares about me even under lockdown. I hope some of you managed to feel the same if not from the Zoom; but at least by the weekly newsletter; the hard copy of the Sunday worship dropped for those not on line; as well as by the monthly newsletter put together by Gladys Townsend and family and Clare Jenkins. I also hope the Church’s WhatsApp group to keep all those on it abreast of individual or Church issues remained helpful.
I believe some of the various things you all did during the lockdown to help others in various ways made a huge difference to them. For example, Diana and Clare helped some to use Zoom, including me. Many got into the habit of calling others more regularly. Penny Bongomin cycled around paying social distance visits to Church Members. While some regularly prayed together.
What next, now that we are hopefully and slowly edging towards the end of the lockdown? It is doubtful Church will be exactly the same again. We should try to keep up with the good habits and drop the unprofitable ones. Keeping our online presence by streaming the Sunday worship is a great idea. Building upon all the wonderful things we did during the lockdown will be magnificent. Keep on supporting one another with prayer. Give any help you can render to one another. Readily volunteer to help the Minister with the work of the Church.
Doing all these, can only enrich us and strengthen the Church. This I think is exactly what Apostle Paul means when he said ‘So let us not become tired of doing good; for if we do not give up, the time will come when we will reap the harvest. So then, as often as we have the chance, we should do good to everyone, and especially to those who belong to our family in the faith’ in Galatians 6:9-10.
I leave you with Galatians 6:18: ‘May the grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all, my friends. Amen.’
Ola Lawal
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Pastoral Letter April 2021

I write this as we have just finished our last (at the moment) Zoom prayer meeting and are preparing for an in-person Easter Day service.  We are also over a year into online services, and so much has changed in our lives.  Some of us have lost loved ones, some have lost jobs, we have probably suffered at some point from feeling isolated from family or friends and certainly from our church community.

You may be wondering – where is God in all this? – you may have leaned into prayer, or felt that God is distant, how can we be reassured?  Sometimes starting a daily prayer/bible study time, or changing it, can help us – I am terrible at this!  But this year for me is a year where my key word is habit.  So, to try and try again is the way forward for me.
I was reassured recently by God’s love.  You will know that I, along with Clare and Pennie, are part of the Life and Mission choir. At the beginning of 2020, we were rehearsing for the 20th Anniversary performances of Time for Jesus (T4J).  At the time, I remember that one of the churches we were to be presenting at was having building works and we were not sure it would go ahead. Then came the Covid news, and all the presentations were cancelled. 

Fast forward to 2021 and Paul (our choirmaster) comes up with the idea that we should do T4J online, and for the last couple of months we have been singing the songs again – in our homes – with laptop, headphone, and cameras, wearing a black top with a plain background.  It wasn’t till the final song – O Jesus I have promised (this part was to be filmed as ourselves – our own clothes and somewhere different) when I found I couldn’t get through it without being just so full of emotion and realisation and crying.  Here I was in my kitchen, with headphones on, my laptop and phone clamped to a dining chair, the words I couldn’t get through…

Oh, Jesus you have promised,
You’ll always walk beside me -
Your loving hand will guide me -
You reign in Glory
Saviour
and my friend.  (1)

God is always there in the depths of our doubt and despair, even if we can’t feel Him.  He is there in our anger at injustice and in our joyful celebrations.  If we look at our bibles, we see that Jesus had the same emotions. Jesus – God’s son – wept at the death of his friend Lazarus, got angry at the temple, and turned water into wine at a wedding feast, and he is with us now.
 
God Will Save His People Again
The Lord says, “Forget what happened before.
    Do not think about the past.
Look at the new thing I am going to do.
    It is already happening. Don’t you see it?
I will make a road in the desert.
    I will make rivers in the dry land.   (2)

So back to the beginning, we are all now thinking about the future and what that will be looking like, maybe God has given us a chance to completely re-think our lives – by being thrown almost overnight into a completely different world of homeworking, technology, zoom, and virtual this and that.
Maybe we have to think about the challenge of a different way of being church, more inclusive, and deeper – after all we have been praying together in groups every Sunday instead of just chatting and our Lent Bible Study is the biggest that I remember.
My prayer as we continue to grow as a church is that we let go of our past ways of doing things, and look to the future of what God wants us to do.

Blessings
Diana Bensted
 
(1) Excerpt from Time for Jesus Musical - Epilogue: O Jesus I have promised.  Words by JE Bode (1816-74) additional words by Paul Wardrop-Day
(2) Isaiah 43v18-19 (International Children’s Bible)

Pastoral Letter March 2021

Following Jesus’ Baptism by John the Baptist in the River Jordan; “Then the Spirit led Jesus into the desert to be tempted by The Devil. After spending 40 days and nights without food, Jesus was hungry. Then, The Devil came to him and said, “If you are God’s son, order these stones to be turned into bread”. (Matthew 4. 1-4) He was tempted to show his true power three times by The Devil.
As we are in the period between Ash Wednesday up till Easter, Ruth is sharing thoughts and Bible passages throughout March. We are all following “Worship in the Wilderness” as our guide, meeting weekly on Zoom while studying, praying and reading Bible passages laid out for us. I am looking forward to this journey of Lent.

After I retired from Holly Park School my close friend Linda and I embarked on a journey to Egypt for two weeks. As our plane crossed the Sahara Desert, we spotted the River Nile, snaking its way towards the vivid green arc of land either side of the river.
Daily we were up at the crack of dawn, or even before that, to travel into the desert by crossing to the other side from Luxor City. We visited the Valley of the Kings, where numerous Pharaohs were buried, way underground.

We were back on our ship sailing down the Nile well before lunch and mainly the heat of the day, even in early January!
Before we left our cruise, we decided to take a hot air balloon ride across the desert and all the historical sites. We crossed the river in the early hours of morning wearing warm clothing and eventually reached our balloon holding 24 of us in its basket!
We glided along gently and even saw our balloon’s shadow on the sandy, rocky desert below. If we had not been with a very competent pilot, I’ve been wondering how we would have fared, with no water or food or map to help us had we been very unfortunate.

What joy as we climbed out after an incredibly gentle landing, dancing in a big circle to celebrate our flight!
To set off as Jesus did, without food while he contemplated his calling to be God’s blessed son on earth without abusing his power. He had to face many temptations to proclaim himself all powerful. He knew he was meant to be humble and to show us the way to live by not boasting of our giving and told us how to pray in private. So many of our Bible stories tell of going into the desert to think, to escape or to suffer great hardship on that journey.

Some may think of our 3rd lockdown sheltering from the “heat” of Covid-19 which persists in roaming around across the whole world, as very depressing.
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When I encountered severe depression some years ago, I felt as though I was in a black cloud, isolated, lost, depressed and anxious beyond reason and utterly “bewildered”. We pray for all those who feel that way now and to know that God is there for them holding out his hands to welcome us back to him. We are asked to “Repent and Return to God”.

Yours in Christ

Anthea Denham

Pastoral Letter February 2021

Lockdown and Lent ! " You cannot be serious !"
 
I am not sure what to give up for Lent, after all lockdown for a year has robbed us of so many of life's pleasurable activities that make it interesting and bearable.
 
Human interaction and social gatherings have almost disappeared, even shopping is not the same. Many of us have had to self-isolate for lengthy periods of time resulting in a rise of loneliness and depression. Add to that the angry and frustrated people demonstrating, the draconian regulations and increasing enforcement by the authorities and we seem to have become a society in meltdown.
 
Of course, this is only one point of view. Another may be the opportunities many of us have had to prioritise what is important to us in this life and examine our real desires. For the Christian this can be a time to reflect on our own faith with many of the daily distractions gone.
 
Jesus spent periods of time alone with his heavenly Father working out his mission and refreshing himself in the Father’s presence without pressure from disciples, family and crowds. For him these were seasons, events in his life that ended with a return to fellowship with his disciples and a continuation of his mission.
 
We too know that this pandemic will end and we shall pick up our lives again, but maybe not in the same old way. 
 
For me one of the benefits of this lockdown is that I have gained an atheist friend!!
 
He is my Landlady's brother and is part of the "family bubble" in this household. We meet every Saturday night to discuss the week in politics, cultural wars, life, lockdown and statistics. Just some light banter! Around socially distanced coffee (of course) we spend about 3 hours in discussion.
He is an atheist and has written several books against religion which he sees as an oppressive tool against mankind's progress towards a more advanced civilization.
 
Over the months I have found my own faith deepening and what has emerged is a recognition that we both have the same hopes and dreams but we label them differently.  He stumbles at Jesus as a personal saviour but our interpretations of what is a perfect world agree almost to the last detail. This has made me believe that we are all born with some sort of God consciousness which I interpret as God's Holy Spirit within and he says is some sort of Universal Spirit.
 
I have pointed out some of the OT and NT verses that support us both when it comes to justice, peace, love, kindness etc. Whilst he has pointed out some of the passages that many Christians wish were not in the Bible as his defence. 
 
So, for me Lent has become more about what I take up than give up. Without my Saturday night discussions, I would not have gained a deeper sense of my own faith and walk - and we are going to continue them. I shall not be giving them up. Of course, the chocolate biscuits will have to go, but only if I am prepared to be serious about working out my own faith and walk with my heavenly Father.
 
Lockdown has been a preparation for Lent. God has stripped away many things in our lives and has given us an opportunity to explore our faith.
 
Let's use this time wisely, God bless
 
Peter Griffiths
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Pastoral Letter January 2021

I gave myself the job of writing the first Pastoral Letter of 2021. We have a rota so that all the Deacons and the Minister share the chance/opportunity of writing these letters. I was thinking about this year and the though occurred to me that Paul wrote letters, I write emails.
I specifically thought of Paul’s letter to the Romans:
chapter 1 11 I long to see you so that I may impart to you some spiritual gift to make you strong— 12 that is, that you and I may be mutually encouraged by each other’s faith. 13 I do not want you to be unaware, brothers and sisters, that I planned many times to come to you (but have been prevented from doing so until now) in order that I might have a harvest among you, just as I have had among the other Gentiles.
 
I identified with the longing to see people in ‘real life’ and not just by phone, computer or on the door-step. It struck me that Paul’s reason is for mutual encouragement by each other’s faith. And also that he had been prevented from doing so - I am sure we can all identify with that feeling. I thought the emphasis on mutual encouragement was valuable - that we all should aim to encourage one another as is also mentioned in another letter from Paul (but this time with Silas and Timothy)
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1 Thessalonians 5 11 Therefore encourage one another and build each other up, just as in fact you are doing.
And
16 Rejoice always, 17 pray continually, 18 give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.19 Do not quench the Spirit.

I was really touched by the emphasis on encouragement and building up each other’s faith. This is something that we can do whilst we are unable to meet in person, or even when we can meet in person but are extremely limited in the inter-person interactions that are allowed - no tea and biscuits and chatting; or in government speak ‘no mingling’.

My New Year’s resolution is to work to build each other up. We can all work toward this aim - thinking what can we each do to enable communication and staying connected to one another. Might we aim to contact others in our congregation to chat and pray together, to plan a Bible study group or someway else to build each other up.

Overall, we need to build each other up in faith in whatever ways we can and not quench the Spirit.
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Clare Jenkins

Pastoral Letter December 2020

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'The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has never put it out’. John 1.5
  
This year we have learnt how to wait; how to wait for a space in a supermarket, how to wait for buses at a quarter of capacity and how to wait for church services to begin again.
 
Advent 2020 offers us an opportunity to reflect on our most challenging of years and particularly on our relationship with God while waiting for church to return to the building. Each family at Christ Church has been given an Advent candle personalised for our church this year. As we light the candle day by day and read scripture alongside it, we are illuminated by beautiful candlelight and our souls are brightened by God’s word.
 
Our Advent this year is domestic; it’s more at home than outside. This is exactly where the story of Christ’s arrival began too, in a small makeshift home with just a few visitors. His birth brought light and life to Mary, Joseph and all those who met him as a baby. His light shone in the darkness bringing hope and healing then and today.
 
As we wait for a different Christmas, as our entire lives have become different, we consider what is really important to celebrate at Christmas. In our waiting at home, our lives have been disrupted and all that we thought was important has been challenged. Christ, likewise disturbed and disrupted every idea of what a King might be.
 
As we wait now, may our Advent candle light, disturb us. May it show us new areas of our lives to develop, may it bring light to those which should change and may it remind us of the baby born in Bethlehem who brought radical change with his light, the light of the world.
 
Blessings Ruth

Pastoral Letter November 2020

Dear brothers and sisters in Christ,
 
As we slowly approach the Christmas season, celebrating the wonderful birth of Baby Jesus and his amazing story, the year 2020 will be remembered as the year where all emotions, positive and negative would have been felt and experienced by everyone in the Church and our community.
 
Being repeated on all media platforms, the phrase “this is a once in a lifetime event”, constantly reminds us that we are still in this pandemic and the many stories of survival, heartache, separation, celebration, confusion, motivation and patience, repeatedly read out on the news, keeps us in this locked mind-set of fight or flight, fear and worry which then leads to our derailment of faith in God.
 
I wish there was a way we could turn back the hands of time to the beginning of this year and take on the year in a different manner but we cannot.
 
During times of difficulty, do not try to get through the struggles of life by your own merit because it will fail you and lead you into deep despair. Moments of discouragement can lead you astray but be strong in the Lord and keep your mind on him. 
 
Pray to the Lord to give you shelter as we walk through this storm as we all, cannot do this without Him.
 
I want to finish off this short letter with a few words from the Good News Bible to reignite your faith in the Lord, for all to stand firm, have faith and put your trust in Him.
 
‘You have made the Lord your defender, the Most High your protector, and so no disaster will strike you, no violence will come near your home.’ Psalm 91: 9 – 10
 
‘God is our shelter and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble.’ Psalms 46: 1
 
‘Lord, I have come to you for protection, never let me be defeated! Because you are righteous, help me and rescue me. Listen to me and save me! Be my secure shelter and a strong fortress to protect me; you are my refuge and defence.’ Psalm 71: 1 - 3
 
Robert Mapara
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Pastoral Letter October 2020

At the closing service for Grove Road we were given a copy of the history of the church, which is a fascinating read.
 
I was struck by one line in the booklet.
Following a direct hit from a German "Doodlebug" which severely damaged the Church building and totally destroyed the halls the Historian records. "It could perhaps be said of the Church at this time "This was their finest hour"- for the Fellowship realised, in its homelessness, that its existence was not dependent on a house made by hands. The Church was indestructible and the gates of hell could not prevail against it". 
 
The parallel with Covid-19, whilst not being a direct correlation, has at least brought out the same fundamental message.
In our current "homelessness", our restriction on meeting or functioning as a local worshipping fellowship, many Christians are re-discovering that the Fellowship is the most important thing, and if that survives this crisis we will rebuild and the gates of hell will not prevail.
 
The historian also tells us that on the very day the bombing occurred a group of volunteers began first aid and salvage work on the building. What they built was not only a sanctuary and new hall but a fellowship ready for the post-war challenges of Christian witness in the area. 
  
Ruth looking us in the eye aptly challenged us to "GO, GO, GO" and make disciples, build a fellowship, a sanctuary and meet the challenges of the "new normal", just like they did in 1944.
 
Are we up to it?
Peter Griffiths
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Pastoral Letter September 2020

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WHAT NEXT?
These are indeed troublesome times, what with a global pandemic, Black Lives Matter protests, the government saying that it is safe to go back to school and work (although some have never stopped) the issues around mental health, unemployment set to rise, and an economic slump, it is no wonder that many people are so fed up with 2020 that they are wishing that it can’t be as bad in 2021! …  But we are not finished with 2020 yet, and it will go down in history – as a worldwide event such as this must.

In the church we are planning to say goodbye to Grove Road, a big part of our Church history, so many events have been held there big and small, and while it is sad that we have to let the building go, it also gives us hope for the future and planned development around the Sanctuary.

With Covid in the mix, we must take precautions, some may not be able to attend church in ‘real life’ even when we do open the doors again.  We must remember that our God is with us when we are in the church building, or on our own, when we are online or meeting in smaller groups.

So where am I going with this?  The media occasionally talks about the Church re-opening – but hey we have been here all the time!  Church is the people not the building.  We can ‘do church’ wherever or whenever we want.  Can’t get to the service – watch the video later in the week.  Miss singing – play some music and sing anyway!

Of course, we do all want to meet in person, but what will that look like, we do not know, we do know that we will not be able to share fellowship in the same way.  And this may go on for quite a while yet.

In our Bible Study, we had a response that I would like to share – it is called a 6-minute retreat.  It is a time when we can stop being in the now and focus on the eternal.
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3 mins – read a short passage (I have used a daily verse), ask 3 questions
  1. What does this tell me about me?
  2. What does this tell me about God?
  3. What do I need to do to take this passage and live it?
2 mins – Pray – God loves to hear your voice, you can cry, laugh or complain, no clever prayers are needed, Share thanks as well as your needs. Start simply – Hi God…
1 min – Listen.  God wants to talk to you, take a moment to listen for him. This might be a sense or feeling.  If you hear nothing, don’t worry, you still sat with Him.  End by saying Amen.

BUT REMEMBER:
Romans 8:38-39 "For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers, nor height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord."
When you are fearful – Pray, God loves to hear from you.  Read the bible, learn a favourite verse, lean into it, go for a walk and wonder at Gods Creation.
There is nothing, not Covid, not politics, not race, not mental health, not social distancing, not fear, that can separate us from the love of God.

Blessings
Diana Bensted

(6-minute retreat – adapted from Spring Harvest Bible Workbook - Church what we can learn from Acts by Beki Rogers available from EssentialChristian.com).



Pastoral Letter July/August 2020

I write this on the day after the Government guidance for safe use of places of worship has just been published and await the BU and URC interpretation of these dry documents. So instead of trying to understand them I will write this letter…
 
For inspiration, I have just been up to Christ Church and checked the grounds for litter and marvelled at the height of the grass on the Bellevue side.
 
Ruth has used the growth of the grass next to the car park to lay out a prayer labyrinth. As the name suggests this is a maze cut into the grass. The instructions are to use the route to direct your prayer. Walking and praying and then listening when you change direction - which with our labyrinth has lots of turns so we are challenged to listen regularly.
 
I also note there are nearly blackberries ready to be eaten amongst the very long grass on a longer prayer circuit round the church building. So maybe something to taste in the next few days…
 
On my return home I spoke to the new people in what was Boyden’s kitchen - a Caribbean street food social enterprise which will be selling vegan and vegetarian food is in the process of setting up. They aim to give disadvantaged people new opportunities. Something to watch as it becomes clear what they will offer and how we might work with them, if appropriate.
 
Back to the future - a very bad set of films…
This period of lockdown has been very different for many of us - some people have been shielding and not gone out at all, some people are vulnerable and have been out less, some have had no difference to their normal routine but with small changes, others have had to balance working at home and child care. I could probably write a sentence different for everyone in the church congregation.
 
As the Deacons plan for meeting together, and we try to understand the Government, BU and URC guidance, we need to proceed with caution.  We need to be aware of the very different experiences people will have and the different needs that we will each have. We may not step rightly at all turns but we aim to follow the spirit of God.
 
How do we move forward? We can only see the way through prayer - of the individual, and together. I encourage you all to find ways to pray about the future together, using Sunday after service “zoom”, prayer trios/triplets or your individual devotions, to discern the mind of Christ.
 
Clare Jenkins
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Pastoral Letter June 2020

Dear Friends and Family of Christ Church,
 
I have been thinking of St. Paul’s letter to the Galatians 5(v1-25) when he writes “The Holy Spirit produces………love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control”.
 
These “fruits of The Spirit” have been much in evidence during this deadly pandemic. We have seen the love of families and friends who fortunately, we can talk to on the phone or even see on “Skype”, even though we long for a physical hug during this lockdown.
 
We’ve all had to exercise patience while we have stayed indoors, sporting long, wild hair. My poor cocker spaniel, George, resembles a black bear with his thick coat and a fringe that almost covers his eyes, while he waits and pants, until he can have a bath and a trim!
 
We have, mostly, practised self-control and avoided public places. We have had the pleasure of beautiful weather so that we can go out in the fresh air for a walk and see Spring in all its bountifulness.
 
We’ve had to put on hold our fete this June when we would have welcomed in our local community. So many events have been cancelled from sports to annual events, weddings and special celebrations.
 
I must say we loved the way Monty Don and Joe Swift made excellent viewing from their own gardens and producing wonderful footage of past Chelsea Flower Shows with fabulous show gardens over the years. It has been a joy to see that every night during the week on the BBC.
 
Of course, we have all missed congregating at Church but I am enjoying Ruth’s services from home and amazed at the technological skills involved. I love the way we see a huge number of people reading Bible passages, from Kevin, in front of the Church and young Elijah, to name a couple. We can join in the hymns accompanied by John.
 
We were unable to have our annual street collection for Christian Aid but I loved the way we could view the video from Christian Aid showing that remarkable spirited lady in Kenya and hear her testimony,        followed by an excellent sermon from Dr. Rowan Williams, past Archbishop of Canterbury and now president of Christian Aid.
Thank you, Ruth, and everyone involved in making this possible.
 
Returning to the “fruits of the Spirit” we have seen such amazing acts of kindness from volunteers, shopping for those in need or those unable to go out. One of our Church Members has been busy making scrubs and scrub bags for the NHS hospital staff and also hearts for people who are dying of Covid 19 to hold. Such goodness and kindness abound of a sacrificial nature.
 
From my own perspective I have really appreciated our lovely garden with its privacy and tranquillity. The air is cleaner and it’s so quiet with just the sound of a robin, blackbirds and wood pigeons singing happily. The shrubs perfume the air and are a delight to see. For me this is pure peace and joy. It’s so good for the mind to be able to find a quiet, peaceful place to enjoy the calm felt once outdoors in a pleasant place. Out there I can ponder on how we must try to continue to value and keep on being kind to each other and think how God wants us to be always. The air is not so polluted, not just here in the UK but in China and India, it is so much better. Help us Lord, to be better custodians of this beautiful Earth.
 
I find calm and peace listening to classical music and reading my two novels, one upstairs and one for the garden!  I have seen my little granddaughter Aisling at 4 ½ months growing and changing. It fills me with love and joy to watch bath time. There she is splashing away and playing with a duck or chewing it. To see how gently she is passed from Maeve to Mark. Storytime amused me as she gazed at the pictures and smiled; all this, from far away in Derry, N. Ireland!
 
Lord, help us to be gentle and to be faithful followers to you who has created all things beautiful.
Hang on to Hope and be positive that this “so too will pass”.
Love to you all.  
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Anthea Denham

Pastoral Letter May 2020

Dear Friends,
 
It is unimaginable that something that had never been heard of before, Covid-19, could lock down most of the world. It is also incredible how much fear the virus had generated. So much so, that even the government is surprised at how obedient most people have been to their instruction and mantra of ‘Stay at home, Protect the NHS and Save lives’.
The devastation and sadness Covid-19 had caused is immeasurable. I pray for God’s - Comfort for all those who have lost loved ones; Healing for those infected; Protection for those unaffected; Courage, protection and peace for all who care for the infected and affected.
 
What had surprised me during this lock down is how creative a lot of people have become in order to cope with it and be at their best. Many churches including ours had quickly resorted to virtual worship. Haven’t our talented minister, Revd. Ruth Moriarty and Diana Bensted, our website manager done so well? Who between them have ensured we had a virtual worship on the YouTube every Sunday since the lockdown and especially throughout the Easter celebrations. We even got to celebrate virtual communion on Good Friday and Easter Sunday. Great thanks to John Moriarty, Ruth’s husband, who played his saxophone brilliantly during the worship to accompany our hymns.
 
Clare Jenkins, our new Church Secretary had also been great at ensuring no one missed out with her regular updates on the worship times and how to join them. I too have learnt how to join in virtual meetings using Zoom and have managed to see the faces of a few of us. You should all speak to Clare on how to use Zoom to join in and chat with others after the Sunday worship if you don’t know how. It’s great fun.
 
As well as the virtual worships, so many have come up with various creative things like clapping for the NHS staff and frontline workers to boost their morale while others have been providing them with free food and drinks.
 
Isn’t the 99 year old Captain Tom Moore inspirational? In order to help the NHS, he decided to complete 100 laps of walking up and down his 80feet garden with Zimmer frame two months before his 100th birthday. He was hoping to raise £1000 for the NHS. He had since raised £15million and still counting. (30/04/20-Happy Birthday, 100 today. As his fund closes over £32million has now been raised, Ed).
I was also impressed by the compassionate thousands of people who returned to work at the NHS to help staffing level and the thousands who volunteered to help the vulnerable within days of the government’s request for help.
 
They are all great acts to remind us there is a lot of good and God’s light shining in our world despite the ongoing gloom of Covid-19.  A good reminder that Jesus Christ had conquered all by his death and resurrection. We are assured of His peace and eternal life. Jesus loves us and will fulfil all his promises to us.
Let us encourage ourselves as we wait for the lockdown to be lifted with Romans 3:38 (NLT) – ‘I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God’s love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God’s love.’
 
God bless you all. Keep staying safe and well.
Ola Lawal 
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Pastoral Letter April 2020

Jesus found a donkey, just as scripture says, ‘Here comes your king, riding on a donkey’. His disciples did not understand at the time; but when Jesus had been raised to glory, they remembered.   John 12.14-16

The Christian community are about to celebrate Palm Sunday, the day when the church remembers Jesus coming into Jerusalem riding a donkey while the crowds shouted “Hosanna – praise the king”. Often at Christ Church, we give out palm crosses and maybe wave and shout to recreate the scene of the city of Jerusalem at the time of Jesus. This year – of course – will be different. As the coronavirus takes a grip over the whole world with lockdowns, staying at home and churches closed, Palm Sunday too will be different. 

So often in the gospels we hear that the disciples didn’t understand Jesus, or what he did. On that first ‘Palm Sunday’, the disciples didn’t understand at the time either. They didn’t understand the significant of the donkey, the palm leaves and the crowd calling Jesus the king.

In a similar way, none of us can quite picture how these strange times will be understood in the years to come. As none of us can really imagine how life might change in the next few weeks and months. 

Might we try to be attentive to what God is doing now? Might we be looking for God at work despite all odds?  Last Sunday we had 84 people watch our service. Many of those people watched with others too. This time now allows those who have been on the fringe of church, those who are housebound, those who are curious about Jesus but lack ability or courage to attend worship. I believe God is at work through all churches now in a beautiful way, and I hope that this will draw all of us into a deeper faith in Christ. For in these times we rely upon the wells of faith and the Spirit’s strength to sustain our souls and each other. 

Might we be alert to what God is doing now and lean into his purposes that we might see his majestic humility and share in the praises of the crowd proclaiming: Jesus is our King. 

Might we be mindful too of the necessity of prayer in these times? We must pray for all medics and the work of the NHS, for key workers, for delivery drivers and supermarket staff. We must pray for all those families who are bereaved and so our prayer can be: Lord sustain and heal us, shape us and lead us on love, healing and hope. Amen

Ruth

Pastoral Letter March 2020

As we enter the period of Lent, I have been taking up a Lent book I studied many years ago probably in a Lent Group. Something that has really struck me is although we recognise Our Saviour Jesus Christ as a gentle, loving, just man, often we forget His strength, His conviction to carry out the task set Him by God the Father. 
 
Many occasions he showed his strength of purpose; when choosing his disciples, originally fishermen, instructing them to follow Him.  The strength of His anger when clearing the temple of stall holders selling birds and animals to be sacrificed as offertories on the alter in the temple. Jesus also showed his impatience with Simon when he criticised the waste of expensive perfume after ‘a woman who lived a sinful life’ had washed His feet with her tears and dried His feet with her hair and poured expensive perfume on His feet’ when no such courtesy had been shown to him when arriving at the house of a Pharisee for dinner.
 
As Christians in this country we may suffer ridicule when witnessing our faith but this is nothing compared to people of many countries where Christians live in fear of physical and violent intimidation and the possibility of being falsely accused of blasphemy.
 
Lent is a reminder of the time that Jesus spent in the desert being tempted before entering into ministry.  By giving up certain foods for example, we start to understand what it might have been like for Jesus to be tempted by Satan to turn stones into bread.  Fasting is one way to help us start understanding how Jesus felt tempted to act in power.
 
This year Rev Ruth Moriarty is leading a Lent Group using a Lent course by Stephen Cottrell ‘The Things He Did”. The group will be meeting at the Manse each week commencing 8pm 5th March.
Do come and join us, it should be an interesting evening.
 
Susan Rogers
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Pastoral Letter February 2020

Pastoral Letter January 2020

Two stories in the news recently caught my eye. The first was that Bethlehem had switched on its Christmas lights on November the 30th and that this year the city’s Christmas theme is joy, “Joy for the world, for all the people and all those who believe and are celebrating Christmas,” mayor Anton Salman said.
 
The amount of preparation and the security operation around Bethlehem at Christmas is enormous. Both the Israeli Defence Force (IDF) and the Palestinian Authority work jointly to ensure the safety of Christian Pilgrims and tourists to Bethlehem.
 
This is especially encouraging as this year the Knesset has ruled that new building can go ahead in Judea and Samaria and Donald Trump has backed the move causing some pain to the Palestinians.
 
I thought the world has not changed much since the birth of Jesus, his homeland is still torn with political strife and yet in Bethlehem once a year everyone, Jew, Palestinian Arab, Christian and tourist seem to be able to get along with each other for a few weeks. It seems a real embodiment of God’s gift of peace to men in Christ.
 
Of course, the cynical among us will say it’s all to do with the vast increase in tourist dollars that flow into Bethlehem during Christmas, but I like to think the whole exercise is a testimony to the Peace that Christ brings to a broken strife torn world.
 
By contrast the second story was of the Chaldean Catholic church of Iraq cancelling Christmas in solidarity with the families of the 430 people who have died in demonstrations against the government in the last 3 months.
 
The head of the Church, Patriarch Louis Raphael Sako, said in a statement on Tuesday "There will be no decorated Christmas trees in the churches or streets, no celebrations and no reception at the patriarchate, out of respect for the dead and wounded among protesters and security forces, and in solidarity with the pains of their families".
I am in no position to judge the action of the Patriarch, I don’t live in Iraq and cannot possibly know the pressure they are under as Christians but I think it is sad that death and destruction seem to have won over the time of “peace and goodwill to all men”. It is precisely at moments like these that people need to see there is a hope even in the midst of death and destruction.
 
I hope that the Chaldean Catholic Christians will still have services and keep the liturgy of Christmas even if the trees and decorations are absent. I am sure they will. The trimmings of Christmas are nice but not essential to the message – the timeless message that in the fullness of time God came into his broken creation in order to bring hope and reconciliation to human beings created in his image.  This has to be our message not only at Christmas but every day of our lives. Jesus the Prince of Peace, Redeemer, Saviour, Healer and friend to sinners, changer of impossible situations, is come into the world. Do not be afraid. Rejoice!
Peter K Griffiths

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Pastoral Letter December 2019


As we enter into Advent, we are reminded of a familiar image of Mary, the mother of Jesus, as a servant ‘I am the Lord’s servant. May it be to me as you have said.’(Luke 1.38)  Here at the heart of the story of God is a young woman, promised to her boyfriend but-not yet-married, showing faith like no other. Her grace, humility and beauty are astounding. But if we read just a little further, we reach Mary’s Song – the Magnificat. Her song though is not a lullaby, or pretty poetry it as Dietrich Bonhoeffer, a German pastor and theologian who was executed by the Nazis, said “the most passionate, the wildest, one might even say the most revolutionary hymn ever sung.”
Above is Ben Wildflower’s new image of Mary, that shows her to be a mighty woman of God. For on the lips a pregnant teenage unmarried girl is the call of God ‘who scatters the proud, brought down mighty kings, lifted up the lowly, filled the hungry with good things and sent the rich away.’ (Luke 1.46-55) Mary’s words challenge us even today, to be conscious that God came to and was born into the lowly. Church is not for the rich, proud and mighty but for girls like Mary on whom the Lord’s favour rests.
 
May we likewise seek to uphold these values as God’s church during Advent. As we give and share with our community, meeting old faces and new, may we be confident of the Kingdom of God that is built upon Jesus Christ. May we have Mary’s courage to challenge power, poverty and false pride in our own lives and in our country and world. May we see Mary differently and may our delight in God be that he chooses us to serve him in the same way today.
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Blessings Ruth
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Pastoral Letter November 2019

“The one who does not love, does not know God, for God is love”
(1 John 4 v 8).
 
God’s love for us is pure, passionate and unlike anything that we have experienced before. God accepts us as we are, our good deeds, our bad deeds, our sins, our past and our flaws, all are bared before His eyes, yet He tenderly reminds us of our worthiness for He wants to forgive, bless and take care of us with His unconditional love.
God’s love is eternal, His love never fails and we too can love like that, however our own strength and willpower is insufficient and we need the Holy Spirit to perfect Gods love in our hearts.
 
“No one has ever seen God, but if we love one another God loves in union with us and His love is made perfect in us” (1 John 4 v12).
 
The deeper and more intimate our relationship with God becomes the better we understand His love for all of us, and the easier it will be for us to love others as an act of loving obedience to God.
 
If someone says “I love God” and hates a Christian brother or sister that person is a liar for if we don’t love people we can see, how can we love God whom we cannot see?  (1John 4 v 20)
 
Our compliance to God’s word stems from our loving obedience to Him who gave His all, so that we could keep on loving and giving in His name. It is only when we love God first and foremost that we reach our full potential for loving others, and as we grow in our loving understanding for God we begin to change and to see others differently.
 
“May the Lord lead you into greater understanding of God’s love and the endurance that is given by Christ” (3 Thessalonians v 5)
 
In reality, true love often happens when we give a willing sacrifice, in the knowledge that we will get nothing in return.
“Love is patient and kind, it is not jealous, conceited or proud. Love is not ill mannered, selfish or irritable, love never gives up, and its faith, hope and patience never fails. (1 Corinthians 13 v4-7)
 
This is what we do for true love, and we hope to experience this love and grow closer to God, so that we naturally begin to
 
“Love from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faith” (1 Timothy1 v5)
 
For God’s love will never fail as God Himself is true love, God never fails, and no matter what happens in life always have a heart that is full of God’s love, patience and trust and never let the cruel utter darkness of this world harden your heart and soul.
“God is the light and there is no darkness at all in Him” (1John 1 v6)
 
I stretch my hands out in the empty air
I strain my eyes into heavy night
In darkness Lord hear my prayer
And help me to see Your light
Anon
God Bless you all,        
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Tony Fensome

Pastoral Letter October 2019

It is a new term, new ecclesiastical year and our societies and activities are re-starting after a summer break. It can all get very busy, very quickly. But, I have been reminded by the need to write this letter, that we need (well I certainly do) to remember to think about what we do and are we doing it for the right reasons. Are we doing things for the right reasons or just through habit?
 
Now is as good a time as any to re-assess what we are doing in our Christian life. How are we spending our time?
 
Should we be spending more time in prayer? On our own or in groups. For this, we are starting up a prayer meeting before service on the first Sunday of each month. This is so that we can meet together and pray for each other and the life of the church. We are reminded in the Bible to build each other up in prayer. This can help us discern what direction the church and each of us should be going.
 
So, I looked this up and found:
Why Should We Pray – For what do we pray?
Prayer is the key to the heart of God. Prayer is the only way to a real and personal relationship with God. 
  • Pray acknowledging He is God, and that you accept His gracious gift, Jesus Christ, as your Lord and Saviour (Genesis 17:1, Romans 6:16-18).
  • Pray confessing our sins and accepting His forgiveness (Romans 3:23-26).
  • Pray that His will be done in our lives, that His Holy Spirit guide us, and that we be filled with the fullness of all God has for us. 
  • Pray for (spiritual) understanding and wisdom (Proverbs 2:6-8, Proverbs 3:5).
  • Pray with thanksgiving for all the ways He blesses us (Philippians 4:6). Pray when we are ill, lonely, going through trials or interceding for others (James 5:14-16, 2 Corinthians 12:9-10).
  • Pray to worship Him (Psalm 95:6-7).
There is nothing we can’t pray about. There are abundant references to prayer in the Bible. The Bible tells us to “pray without ceasing” and “in everything give thanks to the Lord.” When we choose to have a positive attitude, we realize we have received many blessings for which to give God praise. 
 
Are we spending too much time looking things up on YouTube or Google (see last paragraph) or whatever else is your vice?
 
This time is a good time for us to assess our priorities and make sure they align with our beliefs.
 
Clare Jenkins

Pastoral Letter September 2019

Recently we celebrated 50 years since man landed on the moon. I am old enough to remember the event, staying up till 3:o’clock in the morning to hear Neil Armstrong say those famous words, “That’s one small step for man, one giant leap for mankind”.
 
What I never knew until this year was that his companion Buzz Aldrin had taken communion in the Lunar Excursion Module before Armstrong did that first moon walk.
 
When they landed on the moon NASA had suggested a one-hour rest before the walk so that the astronauts did not rush and were in a calm frame of mind to open the hatch and leave the module.
 
During that time Aldrin said the following words over the radio to Houston control centre
“Houston, this is Eagle. This is the LM Pilot speaking. I would like to request a few moments of silence. I would like to invite each person listening in, wherever and whomever he may be, to contemplate for a moment the events of the past few hours and to give thanks in his own individual way."
 
There was then a radio blackout and during that time he took communion.
"I poured the wine into the chalice our Church had given me. In the one-sixth gravity of the moon the wine curled slowly and gracefully up the side of the cup. It was interesting to think that the very first liquid ever poured on the moon, and the first food eaten there, were communion elements."
 
"And so, just before I partook of the elements, I read the words, which I had chosen to indicate our trust that as man probes into space we are in fact acting in Christ.”
 
"I sensed especially strongly my unity with our Church back home, and with the Church everywhere.
 
I read: 'I am the vine, you are the branches. Whoever remains in me, and I in him, will bear much fruit; for you can do nothing without me'"
So, whoever we are and wherever we are we can only bear fruit if we are in Christ Jesus. That includes the surface of the moon or the streets of New Southgate & Friern Barnet.
 
That includes the planning for the moon landing and the planning for a new Church premises at Christ Church. These things can only be achieved in Him.
 
Peter Griffiths

Pastoral Letter July/August 2019

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Dear Fellow Members and Friends,
I suppose everyone today is familiar with the telephone, which in many ways is a boon, although when, as often happens, ours rings while we are having a meal, we are inclined to regard it as something else.
 
There was a period in our house when conversation centred very largely around telephone apparatus and exchange systems, and although I make no claim to technical knowledge, I did learn what happens when one ‘lifts the receiver and listens‘ and how it is that when one ‘twiddles the dial’ the subscriber the other end receives the call – unless of course the number is engaged.
We rightly regard our telecommunications system as one of the achievements of this scientific age, but whereas this is costly and commercial, the ‘telecommunication system’ which God set up for the benefit of His children is available to all, without fee or rental, requires no expensive apparatus, and is not subject to breakdown or interference.  Nor does the caller ever get a ‘number engaged’ response – I am referring of course to prayer.
 
The wonderful thing about prayer is that one may pray at any time and in any place; not only in the Church building, or at a devotional meeting, or in the privacy of one’s room, but anywhere.  There is, however, a special value and Power in the prayer of Believers gathered together
 
One of the shortest prayers on record is Peter’s despairing cry as he was sinking in the sea.  ‘Lord, save me’ he called and Jesus did just that.  He will do it for you, but you must, of course, admit that you need saving, and call for help.  You will receive it right enough, but will you acknowledge Him as your Saviour and love Him as such, or will you wait till the next crisis in your life before you speak to Him again?
Prayer is thanksgiving (for blessings received) Confession (for failures and sins) and Petition, (for guidance and help).  How do you pray? Or don’t you.
 
Prayer is also a two-way communication.
 
Suppose we ‘lift the receiver and listen’ – we are on a direct line, nothing between us, no priest or earthly mediator is necessary.  Jesus is speaking:
 
“Ask and it shall be given you, seek and you shall find, knock and it shall be opened unto you”
“Your Heavenly Father knows what things you need, so seek first the Kingdom of God, and all these things shall be added”.
 
A word of warning.  Prayer is costly – not in coin of the realm but in the breakdown of pride, self-righteousness, indifference and personal ease, but you will find it brings a satisfaction and tranquillity that nothing else in all the world can supply.”
 
This whole letter was published in the newsletter of New Southgate Baptist Church in February 1957, by Leonard C. Gray.  We discovered it during the clear-out for the pre-blessed sale and laughed how accurate it was!  It seems that very little has changed, in current times there is a lot of concern about the ‘telephone’ but ours are ‘smart’ (albeit only as smart as the owner!) we bemoan the heads down culture, and certainly distractions during meal times and family time are as much of a concern today as then.
 
However, the wonderful thing is that God does not change, and that what was said about prayer in 1957 is as relevant now as then.  I would add a few verses from Ephesians 3 v14-21 (NIV)
 
For this reason, I kneel before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth derives its name.  I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love,  may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ,  and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.
 
Now to Him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us, to Him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen.
 
This is my prayer for you and for the Church, that through His power we would be able to do immeasurably more in our church and community, leaning on His strength.
 
God Bless.


Diana Bensted
 


Pastoral Letter - June 2019

Dear Friends,
Commit your work to the LORD, and your plans will be established. (Proverbs 16 v3.)
It seems to me that everybody I am close to is having a massive sort out of things from the past! Our Church has had days of clearing out at Christ Church and the Hall behind of old hymn books, all manner of clutter and interesting finds found in the depths of cupboards, the balcony and the Club Room. As I write this, many are now hard at work this weekend. People are clearing out Grove Road in preparation for a “Pre-Blessed Sale of items. It’s a mammoth task!
As many of you know I finally sold my parents’ house in Birmingham in April. It would have been sold earlier, a) if I had been well enough and, b) before Brexit problems and speculations many eager buyers were unsure of the future – so we lost out!
However, this year I could see we had a chance to move out. The house had to be emptied completely! As I had lived there from the age of just two years old till I left to get married - I had clung on to the house and its belongings. For the past 15 years since my mother moved into a Care Home up there, I felt I had to keep it so I could go and stay for a week or certainly each weekend in order to see my mother.
After my mother passed away in 2009, it was good to take frequent breaks up there, even holidays, visiting friends, the Cotswolds and finding comfort in the calmness the house seemed to induce. It was such a happy home. I loved it and so did my children and Chris too. However, it became obvious that it was time to call a halt!
Tanya, Paul, Mark and Gary gave massive practical help to clear and sort furniture and beautiful contents.
Tanya in particular was with me for the final 8 days when we packed and sorted from early morning till night.
 
We had some fun too but Tanya worked like a Trojan and no way could we have completed by the 18th April without her! I feel well blessed!
The result is a massive feeling of relief! I have got rid of my suite I could no longer rise out of and having my mother’s suite and other furniture too so I have the memories and the peace of knowing much has gone to charity or shared amongst the family and neighbours.
So, I am learning to “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the desert and streams in the wasteland.”
(Isaiah 43 18-19.)
Or in my case emptying out the boxes and clearing a way, in the spare room!
The future lies ahead! We can learn from the past and should do but the past was only yesterday and we press on. Soon we shall have a new lovely hall attached to our Church. There is REAL development there. How exciting!
In our lives I pray to God that a bright future full of hope and peace transcends our lives.
Naomi and Chris will be marrying at Kings College Cambridge on the 11th July in the Chapel. That’s a very exciting thing and other blessings are well in the pipeline for this coming year with God’s grace.
Let’s all be positive, greeting each other and building up our community in ever true closeness and support.
Remember: - “Without God, it is utterly impossible, But with God everything is possible.” (Mark 10 v27.) - Trust in Him.
Yours in Christ,
Anthea Denham
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Pastoral Letter - May 2019

Dear Friends,
 
Summer is almost upon us again when we will be thinking of holidays. Like many of you, I like holidays. I like visiting interesting new places. Trying out the local delicacies and visiting places of interest at my holiday destination. I believe holidays are for gaining new experiences and learning new things like the culture of the people. This probably explained why I hardly go on beach holidays where I could sit on sun loungers and watch the world go by. It was always amusing reading all the tricks people used to get a sun lounger in a vantage position on such holidays. 
 
Apostle Peter was a great traveller, considering the numerous journeys he took to spread the gospel. Most of his journeys were far from comfortable. He even got ship-wrecked in Malta. The reception he got at many of the places where he visited could hardly be described as an ‘all-inclusive leisure holiday.’ He was beaten, stoned and got imprisoned at some of them. None of these stopped him. He persevered with his mission. He tried to finish the race. He knew whom he believed in and was convinced that He is able to guard what he had entrusted to him until the end -
2 Timothy 1:12.
 
The task God had given to each and every one of us can hardly be described as an ‘All-inclusive holiday’ at times. There are days we will feel tired, despondent and even sorry for ourselves because we think the load is becoming too heavy. Jesus says, ‘His yoke is easy and the load He will put on us is light.’ Mathew 11:30. Our load only becomes heavy when we stop looking at the divine power of Jesus and focus on our physical strength. What more, He has left us with a Helper, the Holy Spirit, to guide and guard us. Do not grow weary running the race. Call on Him daily to grant you the strength and wisdom to keep up His good work. ‘He will sustain you to the end, so that you will be blameless on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ.’ 1 Corinthians 1:8.
 
God bless you and grant you all you need to keep up with His good work. Amen.
Ola Lawal
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Pastoral letter - April 2019

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Have you given up anything for Lent? Perhaps you have decided to follow a new diet, turned off social media, or even given up beer? Guardian columnist Zoe Williams recently said: Lent is all showy, wholesome abstinence. In part Williams explains how Lent can be misunderstood.
 
Lent is a reminder of the time that Jesus spent in the desert being tempted before entering into ministry. By giving up something that tempts us, the time or money or both that is saved is a help to ourselves and others. By giving up certain foods for example, we start to understand what it might have been like for Jesus to be tempted by Satan to turn stones into bread.
Fasting in this way, denying ourselves helps us to start to understand how Jesus felt tempted to act in power.
 
The practice of Lent is to encourage us to echo the life of our Saviour who suffered for us, who gave up all riches and power that we might be free.
 
‘Think of yourselves the way Christ Jesus thought of himself. He had equal status with God but didn’t think so much of himself that he had to cling to the advantages of that status no matter what. Not at all. When the time came, he set aside the privileges of deity and took on the status of a slave, became human! Having become human, he stayed human. It was an incredibly humbling process. He didn’t claim special privileges. Instead, he lived a selfless, obedient life and then died a selfless, obedient death—and the worst kind of death at that—a crucifixion.
 
 
Because of that obedience, God lifted him high and honoured him far beyond anyone or anything, ever, so that all created beings in heaven and on earth—even those long ago dead and buried—will bow in worship before this Jesus Christ, and call out in praise that he is the Master of all, to the glorious honour of God the Father.’ Philippians 2.5-11
 
However you choose to prepare for Easter this year, whether you choose to fast from something, take something up, may each of us set aside time to walk closer to Jesus, that we might be changed and so transform those who we know and love with his beautiful grace.
 
Ruth Moriarty
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Pastoral letter - March 2019

​As we approach the start of Lent are you not astonished as I am how early Easter Eggs appear each year. We hardly seem to have finished celebrating Christmas.
 
Many people will be thinking of making an effort to abstain from alcohol, chocolate or cakes during Lent but these denials were probably needed directly after Christmas following all the festive food and drink. 
 
To seek to pray and study the Holy Bible during Lent seems a more appropriate and gainful way of using our efforts.  Over the past few     weeks in our church service we have been looking at the book of Nehemiah. 
 
Many Christians have suffered ridicule and sarcasm, felt intimidation and exhaustion but with faith and constant prayer we can recover our courage to continue the work set for us by Christ to spread His love and generosity.
 
In the service led by Mrs Diana Bensted a quote of John Bunyan was read: “You can do more than pray, after you have prayed, but you cannot do more than pray until you have prayed. Pray often, for prayer is a shield to the soul, a sacrifice to God, and a scourge to Satan.”
 
So, as a church with projects such as the hall to be rebuilt and work to carry God’s message out into the community; let us remember  Nehemiah, his faith in God and his determination to complete the task of rebuilding the wall of Jerusalem to honour God and bring His people  home.

Sue Rogers
   

Pastoral letter - February 2019

Dear Brothers and Sisters of Christ Church,
 
As we step into a new month of the new year, I hope January treated you well be it spiritually through a personal relationship with our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, financially with a new job or apprenticeship or physically through a new gym or outdoor regime to keep yourself fit and healthy. We are still feeling the hangover from 2018 as it was an interesting year for many reasons but I pray and hope that 2019 will be the year for many individuals within our congregation and the wider community. I am blessed and fortunate to be a deacon at Christ Church Friern Barnet, and when I hear about goals and aspirations from you all, I only hope and pray for bigger and better things to work out for everyone.
 
Scripture is the fuel for the soul and the wood that keeps the fire burning within us. As you know, the book of Proverbs is my favourite book in the Bible. The Bible in general is a fantastic instructional, motivational and spiritually uplifting guide to have at all times but the book of Proverbs covers a wide spectrum of everyday concerns from humility to loyalty, respect for the unfortunate to etiquette in relationships. The Bible commands us not to quit, even when we experience that defeated feeling. Scripture uses the word ‘endure’ when describing how to deal with that feeling meaning to stand up courageously under suffering. As we gallop forward into 2019, I want to finish off my pastoral letter with a few words of encouragement to keep the fire burning within us if we feel like quitting or accepting defeat even if it is only February.
 
All proverbs are from the Good News Bible.
 
  1. Worry can rob you of happiness, but kind words will cheer you up. Proverbs 12: 25
  2. Trust in the Lord with all your heart. Never rely on what you think you know. Remember the Lord in everything you do and he will show you the right way. Proverbs 3: 5-6
  3.  Get all the advice you can and you will succeed, without it you will fail. Proverbs 15: 22
  4. If you refuse to learn, you are hurting yourself. If you accept correction, you will become wiser. Proverbs 15: 32
  5. Ask the Lord to bless your plans and you will be successful in carrying them out. Proverbs 16:3
  6. You may make your plans but God directs your actions. Proverbs 16: 9
  7. Intelligent people are always eager and ready to learn. Proverbs 18: 15
  8. Do yourself a favour and learn all you can; then remember what you learn and you will prosper. Proverbs 19: 8
 
Many blessings to you all and I pray that 2019 is a year of change and exciting experiences!
 
Robert Mapara 

Pastoral letter - January 2019

Welcome to The Bible
 
The Bible is the most powerful book that has ever been written. Countless lives have been changed by it, numerous authorities have tried to ban it, Godless persons have burned it and many Christians have died to preserve it. Why has this book had such a huge impact on so many people? Because this book, The Bible, is the very word of God as He was the author. Over hundreds of years he chose certain individuals to write down exactly what He wanted to tell mankind and although these people wrote in Hebrew and Greek their words have been carefully translated into many languages so today the whole world can read God’s message if they choose to.
 
Although the Bible was written over a thousand years ago its message is timeless, personal and powerful because it comes from God. Millions of people have discovered that the Bible speaks to their deepest needs and people from all over the world turn to God’s word daily for words of hope, comfort, guidance, encouragement and inspiration and the answers to their problems. However, the Bible is more than just an answer book for the world’s problems, it is also made up of exciting adventures, inspiring stories, beautiful poetry, compelling messages and the wonderful life story of Jesus Christ.
 
The Bible may look like one book, but it is actually sixty-six books rolled into one, thirty-nine make up the Old Testament and twenty-six in the New Testament. God used many authors, as many as forty, over a time period of many centuries and each one contributes to God’s life changing message. What is that message? God makes it clear that He loves us and has a plan to save us from sin’s destructive power.
 
God wants each of us to experience a life that has meaning, direction, love and peace, and this can be possible through a personal relationship with His Son Jesus Christ. When people decide to follow God’s plan for their lives the most important thing is to recognise Jesus as their Lord and Saviour so they can find meaning and purpose in all that they do, for without God’s direction they may not know what to do with their lives.
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When they follow Jesus as their Lord and Saviour they will be at peace with God and filled with His love so that when troubles rear their ugly heads God will be with them. So, remember we can live to please God by obeying the commands He has given everyone in the Bible and if we obey God, we can be sure that we are Christians and will one day have eternal life in Heaven.
 
Tony Fensome

Pastoral letter - December

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'The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness did not understand it' John 1.5
 
As we prepare to dust off the Christmas lights from boxes and bags hidden in garages, lofts and cupboards that are too small, we are reminded that lights and Christmas are the perfect match. We delight in fairy lights transforming dull rooms into enchanting places, we make a special trip to see the lights of Oxford St, and we light candles at carol services saying 'Jesus is the light of the world, the light that shines in the darkness'. For a long time, the church has understood herself to be a light guiding others to find Jesus. 
 
'But what kind of light are we?' asked Rev'd Paul Martin from Trinity Church in Finchley to a full church at the recent London Baptist Association district celebration. It's an excellent question and one that has stayed with me for weeks now. For some Christians, to be light is to be neon-bright and loud, seen from far away and boldly active in the community. For others it is to be a flickering flame in the darkest corner of a soul. 
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How will we be light this Christmas in our community? And here is a question for each of us to discern with the Holy Spirit's guidance. I suspect that among our friends, neighbours and family our faith needs to be a steady light, one that doesn't go out. But also, one that understands what darkness is, knows that Jesus' light changes every darkness imaginable. Knowing Jesus in our hearts, as our friend and Saviour brings light and hope to every situation. May we be courageous in sharing his light, our experiences of the darkness of this world and enable others to see his light by pointing to Jesus, whether we are flashing neon lights or a simple candle, may we bring God's light into this world at Christmas time.  
 
Ruth

Pastoral letter - November

Dear Friends,
 
Where had the time gone? The last time I wrote a pastoral letter was in April. I told you about how hard but enjoyable my TLS Gateway into Worship was. We were also about to celebrate Easter. It’s November and we’re beginning to think of Christmas celebrations if not planning for it already. Thank you all for your prayers. God answered them. I have successfully completed the TLS GiW training and have started my third and last year which is on Mentor Reflective Practice. The good thing about this year is I only need to be away from church one Sunday a month. This is because I need to preach monthly in three to four different churches during the year. Please continue to keep me in your prayers for this final year.
 
The URC had replaced TLS (Training for Learning and Service) with ‘Stepwise’. To celebrate the end of TLS, the URC had a thanksgiving event in June at Birmingham called ‘Transforming Faith, Transforming Life’. A number of old and current students were invited to play different parts in the service. I was one of the four people invited to give a brief testimony on ‘how the Lord has worked in your life through TLS.’ I was the third person on the testimony list. The first person did TLS over twenty years ago and has just been appointed a minister to a Church which was well beyond his expectations. The second person completed TLS about twelve years ago and had a lot of story to tell about how God had helped her ministry over the years. As the only student, I had no major story to tell. I thanked God for helping me so far and confirmed I have learnt a lot from the numerous recommended books, the tutorials and workshops. However, I mentioned what God had really helped me to see was its application on a daily basis through the actions and deeds of every member of staff I came across. One could say they lived their Christianity. They were selfless, kind, patient, generous, calm, helpful, joyful and encouraging. I could see God’s love in action through them.
 
We ask God to grant us the fruits of the Holy Spirit but do we really put them into action and bless others with them?
Let us try to bless everyone with these fruits by our Christian living. Call that person whom you know needs encouragement. Offer practical help to that person who is not coping for one reason or the other. Talk to that lonely person. Be kind to that person others perceive as difficult. Include everyone interested, not just those you feel comfortable with in Church activities. Try not to be judgmental but be tolerant and compassionate. Be forgiving and merciful to others. Ephesians 5: 1-2 says, ‘Follow God’s example, therefore, as dearly loved children and walk in the way of love, just as Christ loved us and gave himself up for us as a fragrant offering and sacrifice to God’. Living our Christianity can only make us a stronger community of God and promote the building of the Kingdom of God on Earth.
 
Shalom.
Ola Lawal
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Pastoral letter - October

As I write this letter we are approaching the Harvest celebration; this year we are to celebrate the event 6th and 7th of October.  I consider the conference I recently attended called Action on Climate Change. The gathering was at St John’s URC, New Barnet and I was heartened by the presence of speakers from the Green Christian Group, Operation Noah and Christian Aid among others; by their determination to educate the world to the damage being done to our climate by fossil fuel.
 
It is our duty as guardians of God’s beautiful creation to show our gratitude by giving back to God the best of His fruitful earth. In the UK this year, summer was long and hot causing hard times for farmers and fearful time for some home owners with the shortage of seasonal rain resulting in parched earth and fires ruining the land. Droughts effect many countries, an experience happily we do not usually have to suffer.  How wasteful are we who have so much?  Now, in September hurricanes and typhoons are causing immense damage to China and the Philippines.                       
 
Sunday, 16th September, Rev. Ruth Moriarty read from Deuteronomy 14:22-29 on the setting aside of tythes at the time of harvest.  This passage is also useful for us to remember those who do not have properties of their own and remember the foreigners, orphans and widows who live in the town. The world is a fearful place with countries driving out its inhabitants with conflict and persecution.  How safe we feel as an island distancing ourselves from the distressed and needy.
 
Always remember 2 Corinthians 9:7 “Each one should give, then, as he had decided, not with regret or out of sense of duty: for God loves the one who gives gladly. And 2 Corinthians 9:9 “He gives generously to the needy; his kindness lasts forever.”
 
This year the Mission Group have decided donations collected at the Harvest service will be going to HAB (Homeless Action in Barnet).
 
Sue Rogers
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Pastoral letter - September

Brothers and sisters of Christ Church, Friern Barnet,
 
I start off my letter with words of encouragement, to provide inspiration and strength as you cope with life’s challenges. “And so, encourage one another and help one another, just as you are now doing.”
1 Thessalonians 5:11 (GNB)
“But those who trust in the Lord for help will find their strength renewed. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary; they will walk and not grow weak.” Isaiah 40:31 (GNB) “Remember that I have commanded you to be determined and confident! Do not be afraid or discouraged, for I, the Lord your God am with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1: 9 (GNB)
“Do not be afraid, I am with you! I am your God, let nothing terrify you! I will make you strong and help you; I will protect you and save you.” Isaiah 41: 10 (GNB)
 
Nowadays it has become more prominent in our daily lives to be comfortable living in our ‘comfort zones.’ Gone are the days where we challenged ourselves physically, spiritually and mentally, at tasks that put us in an uncomfortable position from our comfort zones. The widely known quote with many variants “the unknown makes people uncomfortable” seems to be intertwined into our daily lives and we live by it. If a new challenge comes our way, we aren’t trying it!
Peter McWilliams (poet, writer, dramatist and activist 1949-2000) perfectly said “Be willing to be uncomfortable. Be comfortable being uncomfortable. It may get tough, but it’s a small price to pay for living a dream.” Whenever we get involved in a new challenge or have no experience to go by, we get that sickening feeling of anxiety in the pit of our stomach. We try hard to back away from the challenge by making up excuses or having negative thoughts racing through our mind about what might happen if we do not succeed or embarrass ourselves.
 
Throughout the Bible, you can find inspirational quotes or stories of individuals who with their unflinching faith and trust in God conquered challenges that were set before them. 

We can find stories of individuals who were not scared of going into the unknown, placing their trust and faith in God, knowing that whatever challenge or journey was set for them, their pathway would not be an easy ride but with God marking their every step, everything would be alright.
 
One story that comes to mind displaying faith and courage with the Almighty power of God by their side is the story of David and Goliath (1 Samuel 17). It is a story we can all relate to and use as an example of how to deal with obstacles that come our way.
 
Goliath was a tank of a man. At nearly 3-metres tall, protected by bronze armour weighing roughly 57-kilograms and a bronze javelin slung over his shoulder, he led the Philistines to battle the Israelites in the Valley of Elah. For 40-days, Goliath and the Philistines taunted the army of Israel, shouting out, “What are you doing there, lined up for battle? I am a Philistine, you slaves of Saul! Choose one of your men to fight me. If he wins and kills me, we will be your slaves; but if I win and kill him, you will be our slaves. Here and now I challenge the Israelite army. I dare you to pick someone to fight me!” When the Israelites heard this, they were terrified and retreated back to their camp. How the Israelites felt then is what the majority of us are doing today. Whenever a new challenge presents itself in front of us, we reverse back into our comfort zones and shy away. We place it at the back of our mind and forget about it. Common phrases such as “I’ll do it later” or “it’s no big deal, I’ll do it another time” run circles in our head reassuring our mind, body and soul that we will not attempt the new challenge and we are perfectly fine in our comfort zone.
 
For one young boy, he accepted every challenge that came to him and trusted in God. The youngest of eight boys in a family, David was a shepherd boy. His three eldest brothers had gone with King Saul to war with Goliath’s army. One day he took food to his brothers in camp to find out how they were getting on and report back to his father. Just as David arrived, both camps were preparing for battle. As David was with his brothers, Goliath came forward and challenged the Israelites as he had done before and David heard him. When the Israelites saw Goliath, they ran away in terror. 

David was outraged and marched into the tent of King Saul and volunteered for duty. King Saul gave David his own armour to wear but David refused. He told King Saul, “I take care of my father’s sheep. Whenever a lion or a bear carries off a lamb, I go after it, attack it, and rescue the lamb. I have killed lions and bears and I will do the same to this man who has defied the army of the living God. The Lord has saved me from lions and bears; He will save me from this Philistine.” He took his shepherd’s stick, picked up five stones from the stream and placed them in his bag. With his sling ready, he went out to meet Goliath. David’s faith in God was unshakable. The size of his obstacle did not faze him because he knew the size of his God and the almighty strength his God had to see him through his challenge.
 
We should all embrace the David mindset and take on challenges that present themselves to us. If David had no faith in God, he could have easily run out of the camp when seeing Goliath and returned to his comfort zone with his sheep and dad but he did not. He was unfazed by the size of Goliath and the army.
 
As a young boy, I was always told at Sunday school that the five stones David randomly picked up spelt out ‘Jesus’. David could have picked up two, three, seven or even ten stones but specifically went for five stones. Five stones, five letters which equals ‘Jesus’. “I keep my eyes always on the Lord. With him at my right hand, I will not be shaken.” Psalm 16:8 (NIV).   
 
Upon seeing David, Goliath mocked him. “What’s that stick for? Do you think I am a dog? Come on and I will give your body to the birds and animals to eat.” Unnerved by the giant, David replied,
“You come against me with sword, spear and javelin but I come against you in the name of the Lord Almighty, the God of the Israelite armies whom you have defied. Everyone here will see that the Lord does not need swords or spears to save his people. He is victorious in battle and He will put all of you in our power.”
 
David ran towards Goliath with his sling ready. He placed a stone in his sling and let a single stone fly towards the giant. The rest, as they say, is history!  At a young age, David took on a challenge that scared the bravest soldiers within the Israelite army. He may have been the youngest soldier on the field but his faith in God made him the strongest on the battlefield.
 
We can learn from David’s actions and his steadfast faith in God. There was not a single grain of doubt in his young mind that he would be defeated by Goliath. He placed his trust in God and delivered. We should place our trust and faith in God and get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Spiritual growth does not come from being comfortable. We have to trust in the Lord when venturing into the unknown and keep our eyes fixed to the Lord as He is the light bearer of our path.
 
As the new term of school starts very soon for the youth of today, I pray that they embrace the David mindset. Be comfortable being uncomfortable. Trust in the Lord and everything will be okay. For everyone else wanting to see positive change in their life, you have to be willing to be uncomfortable. “Whatever makes you uncomfortable is your biggest opportunity for growth” Bryant McGill.  I end my letter with Isaiah 43:2 (GNB) “When you pass through deep waters, I will be with you; your troubles will not overwhelm you. When you pass through fire, you will not be burnt; the hard trials that come will not hurt you.
 
Robert Mapara

Pastoral letter - July/August

Dear Family and Friends of Christ Church,

We have been truly blessed with a lovely Spring and now we are into the Summer Season. Many of you may be going away on holiday or just going out for days at a time or staying at home and enjoying the Summer sunshine. This is a time of rest, relaxation and restoration. Revision and exams are over for our young people and much needed free time for all those working hard all year in need of a break will be welcome.

Long ago holidays were for Holy Days. You may recall the story of Jesus travelling as a 12 year old child to Jerusalem with his parents for the Passover Festival. We can all recall the panic when your child was missing even for a minute. Jesus (Luke Chapter 2 verse 41) was missing for 3 days when he was found not to be with the large party of people returning home. Imagine the relief and amazement to find him in the Temple listening and asking intelligent questions to the Temple Leaders. When asked why he had caused such anxiety he replied.
"Did you not know that I had to be in my Father's House" From that day he grew in wisdom, finding favour with God and men.

Now holidays may be taken thousands of miles from home.
In June 2 of my family were in Sicily, 2 in Indonesia and Vietnam and my eldest grandson in Boston, Tanya in Portugal leaving 2 at home in Turkey!!

The highlight of our Summer is the return to the UK of my family who have been living and working in Turkey. They have had a wonderful experience for four years there! Please pray for them as they return and make the transition back to their own home. It will take some adjusting!

Many people take a good book to read on holiday. reading is one of my passions. I have just read "The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society". The book is a series of letters which tell the story of the island of Guernsey when it was occupied by the German army during the 2nd World War. 

The people had a very hard time of it and had to send their children away to the countryside in England for safety for 4 years and were extremely short of food. However, though this part of the story is true, the rest is fiction where the people in one area start a book group and share books. Their love and compassion and support for one another keeps their spirits up with humour and courage. 

Did you see the moving service for the families and friends of the Grenfell Tower fire, drawn together from all faiths and races in a Christian Church? You too then will have witnessed the strength of their support and compassion for one another forming a wonderful community. As Jesus said in the Beatitudes "Blessed are those who mourn for they shall be comforted".  God feels great concern for his people.

The Bible is a good and vital source of knowledge. There are of course many books making our Bible, full of wonderful stories of all sorts of people; stories full of faith, praise and hope. There is nothing better than reading or telling your children about the Bible stories. As a child I always treasured a Bible story book given to me and read and read them.

Please pray for our Church's aim to be welcoming to our new members of the congregation and pray we will become an even stronger community showing support, love and compassion for all we meet.

I hope you have an excellent Summer and remember Jesus' words "Come unto me, all you who are tired from carrying heavy loads and I will give you rest".

Anthea Denham

Pastoral letter - June

RESURRECTION STORIES
 
In the New Testament Jesus would often tell stories that showed how closely resurrection is related to the reality of daily life. Let us take His parable of the prodigal son as an example. The younger of two sons took his share of his father’s legacy and fled to a distant land. Here he squandered his fortune, falling into humiliation, poverty and finally servitude feeding pigs. For all intents and purposes it was as though he was dead, as we all know the young man eventually returned home and was greeted joyfully by his father.“Bring the fatted calf and kill it we are going to have a feast because this son of mine who was lost now is found. He was dead and has come back to life.” so the young man was restored to his home, his family, his native country, and to God, ending with a homecoming celebration. So the return of the prodigal son is a parable of the resurrection.
 
In the story of Easter on the third day Jesus rose again and just like the prodigal son He returned to his home, to His native land, to His family and friends and they celebrated by sharing a meal. So the parable of the prodigal son and his resurrection reflects the patterns of our own existence, in this life of ours there are all those mysterious twists and turns that lead from life through the valley of death towards a new creation, but always the joyous homecoming, for from under the shadow of death and in the midst of life’s greatest tragedies there comes the resurrection of life.
 
In giving His life for us Jesus revealed that we too can move forward from moments of trial towards the joy that His disciples shared, We too can make it through periods of boredom and lassitude and find that sense of purpose which is God’s will for us. We too can confront sickness and physical suffering and come through the valley of the shadow of death to believe that we are held in God’s right hand.
 
We don’t have to spend our days struggling to grasp and grab all the material things in life when all we ever need or desire is God’s free gift of grace.
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We can if we so wish, follow in Christ’s footsteps until at last we are part of that great homecoming at the end of every resurrection story. Then we too can look forward to the day when we are embraced in the warm and welcoming arms of our creator and hear those words of praise “Well done good and faithful servant, now enter into the joy of your maker”
 
Praise be to God.
            Tony Fensome

Pastoral Letter - May

A NEW WAY OF PRAYING
 
When I was a boy, I grew up in a Christian home so I knew that prayer was important. Our home routine was to pray first thing before breakfast as this was the key that unlocked the door to the rest of the day. We prayed before mealtimes, before bedtime and of course at church, so it was very clear to me that talking to God was important and something I should do as often as possible. I also realised that there were two types of Christians, those who prayed and the others who I later discovered were prayer warriors. However, like many of us, life intervened, I fell in love, got married, started a family, followed a career, and it was not until that life changing car crash in 2005 that I reconnected with God. As I slowly found my religious feet again I realised I wanted more and I wanted to be a Christian who actually believed that God would listen to and answer my prayers no matter how ridiculous. When I prayed I did not feel I was praying with all the power that the bible talked about prayer having. I knew that I wanted to be a prayer warrior; I wanted to take God at his word, believing in the power of prayer, having faith that would move mountains.
 
The first thing I discovered through reading relevant articles was how consulting the bible could help with my prayers. Let us say that you are praying for wisdom to help you make a decision, look through your bible to find verses concerning making decisions and having God’s wisdom, and you will find (James 1 5-6) which says” If any of you lack wisdom let him ask God”, you can then utilise this into your prayers. We should be faithful about praying for people and situations as God does not want us to be shy about bringing our requests before Him either for ourselves or for the benefit of others.
 
Most important of all is to believe that God will answer your prayers, now I know that God will not answer yes to all of my prayers but I have faith and I know that He will answer every single time. Sometimes He will say yes, sometimes wait, and other times the answer will be no, but He will answer. The question now is do you believe that God is really listening and that He cares and will answer? As a prayer warrior I ask God with faith without doubting that God will hear and answer in His good time and in a good and positive way.

​I am finding it difficult to memorise relevant verses from the bible so I have started to write down my prayers in a notebook and also how God has answered them so that I have a reference when I need inspiration and although I am aware that this approach will not work for everyone, it has done so for me and I feel much closer to God.
 
Tony Fensome

Pastoral letter - April

Dear Friends,
 
The winter had been long and cold, not to talk of the snow in December that caused a bit of a havoc. At the start of my six months attachment at the United Reformed and Moravian Church, Harlesden, I prayed it would not be like a long winter. As I would be away from friends in the Church for so long.
 
I am glad to say the church had been most welcoming and supportive. Jesus was waiting for me in the Church and I could sense His love and help in everything. I praise and thank God immensely for His help, care, love and mercy. I have since preached on a number of occasions, leading worship and a full All-age worship. Many in the church treat me like a member. This is probably because I had to attend their weekly activities to aid my writing of ‘The whole life of Church’ project.
 
There had been so many books to read as well as fortnightly evening tutorials’ assignments. I more or less seem to eat and breathe ‘Gateway into Worship’ (GiW) which is what this second year of training is called. The two weekends away to Manchester and Ely had been hard work but fun. I even managed to see the lovely Ely Cathedral and its beautiful Octagon tower. The last weekend away is in June.
 
The compulsory two thousand words essays had been challenging. Not to mention the rules! ‘Use footnotes not endnotes’. ‘Titles in bibliography are in italics’ and so it goes on. I also thought a Reflective journal will only be a few paragraphs of my experiences but ‘No’, two thousand words long it had to be! There are still three, one thousand words projects and another two thousand words review of the church to go. Who says becoming an accredited URC National Lay Preacher is a walk over? In spite of all the hard work, I am encouraged by the outcome of the parts I had completed. The year finishes with GiW assessment in May. Another year to go after this but hopefully not away from my church. Thank you all for your prayers. Please continue to keep me in your prayers.
 
Any time I doubted or felt weary, Proverbs 3:5-6 has been a great help. It says,                                    
‘Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;
in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.

Easter means new beginnings, renewal and restoration. My friends, Jesus has called each one of us to help build up God’s Kingdom on earth. To build up our church community and the community around us. What has God put on your heart to help with doing this task? Trust in the Lord. He will help you. Don’t procrastinate any longer. It might even be becoming a full member of the church. Your attitude and passion for the Church might change. Giving you the kick-start needed.
Christ is Risen! Christ is Risen Indeed!! Halleluiah!!!
Happy, Blessed Easter!!!
Ola Lawal
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Pastoral letter - March

It is always difficult to know what direction to go with a pastoral letter.  This time I would like to report on my attendance at Bible study and prayer group.
 
Since becoming a member of Christ Church in 1994 I have had a desire to understand the Bible better and by attending a Bible group it has given me the opportunity to look more closely at the meaning of God’s word.
 
Over the years I have attended other Bible studies, some held at my home.  I am grateful Allister and Julie are now leading a group called Connect. The group is looking at six individuals who met Jesus.
 
We started by visiting the gospel of John 4 vv 4-26, “The Woman at the Well”.  The beauty of looking at scripture in a group is being able to  discuss with others the national situation at the time; the customs and cultures influencing the lives of the people in the text and the changes to their lives when learning of/or meeting with the Lord.
 
January, we were fortunate to receive a sermon from Pennie Bongomin. Pennie’s theme was anxiety; in her sermon she described her real yearning to serve the Lord more. Pennie has been a Christian all her life but admitted, when studying with others, she has been able to look afresh at what she has always understood.
 
Please see opposite a poem taken from a helpful book called Unlocking the Bible.  In Lent we feel the added importance of studying our Bible leading up to Holy week.  This small group is gradually growing, do try and join us in the church parlour, 2nd and 4th Thursday each month.  The next time we meet will be to look at Luke 19vv 1-10.
 
                                                      Sue Rogers
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​Brothers and sisters of Christ Church,
Happy New Year and I wish you all the best for 2018 to achieve all goals and plans whatever they may be for the New Year! It may only be the 2nd month of 2018 and I bet that many of us have quit, put-on-hold or totally rejected our “New year resolutions and plans for 2018”. I will put my hand up and admit that it is hard to maintain patience and wait for something. We do not have a copious supply of patience to wait and go through the small steps that lead to the final outcome; everything has to come at the snap of a finger.
 
In today’s world, time has become somewhat of a finite component of existence. There is so much to do in our personal lives that we become impatient and rush through life, missing out on the finer details of life. Many biblical characters in Scripture made poor personal choices because of their lack of patience in God. A familiar story is Moses and the impatient Israelites in the wilderness (Exodus 12 onwards). Reading from Exodus 12 through to the book of Numbers, it paints a picture of how impatient and bitter the Israelites were towards Moses and to God, even testing God! By using Moses, God led His people out of horrible conditions, they lived as slaves in Egypt, He saved them from Pharaoh’s army (the parting of the Red Sea) and made great promises to the Israelites…but throughout the difficult journey, they were still impatient and complained A LOT! (Exodus 17:2-7, Numbers 21: 4-6). They wanted everything that God had promised right away.
 
We should learn from our ancestors, the Israelites, that God knows when to do everything. His timing is perfect and everything happens for a reason. The Israelites’ lack of faith was manifested in their impatience. With their own actions, they made things difficult for themselves in the wilderness.
 
Patience is one of the nine fruits of the Spirit. We had an interesting sermon led by our Minister Rev. Ruth Moriarty on the fruits of the Spirit and patience is one of the nine fruits needed to live a fruitful and peaceful life. Galatians 5: 22 – 23 (GNB) says “But the Spirit produces love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility and self-control. There is no law against such things as these.”  Patience is the ability to wait for something without getting annoyed or restless. Not too long ago, we went through a phase of finding a new minister for Christ Church Friern Barnet. Our patience was tested and what a test it was! There is an old saying that says, “Good things come to those who wait” and are we glad we waited! Applicant after applicant, we waited patiently as we read many applications, some of which were very good! We did not rush and pursue the applicant we thought was “good for Christ Church” but rather we waited on an answer from the Lord. Proverbs 3: 5-6 (GNB) “Trust in the Lord with all your heart. Never rely on what you think you know. Remember the Lord in everything you do, and He will show you the right way.”
 
Many people place blame on God by saying that “He is taking too long with my plans” and they prematurely rush into a decision without thinking of the consequences. When their decision backfires, shouts of desperation towards the sky such as “God, why didn’t you help me?”, “Why didn’t you stop me God!?” or “I trusted in you Almighty God to see me through this journey” ensues. Proverbs 19:3 (GNB), “Some people ruin themselves by their own stupid actions and then blame the Lord.” Our Heavenly Father never takes too long for a plan to come together. God knows what you don’t know and He sees what you don’t see. We have all been down that road where we have prayed for things we need in our lives and we see things that seem similar to what we prayed for. There are so many distractions in this world that detract us from what God wants for us. The evil schemes of man put what we have been praying for in front of us, giving us the illusion that it is from God. We must not rush into every decision which can lead to a downward spiral. We must not pray and say “God did not say no to this so I’m guessing this is His will.” We must all be still and wait on the Lord. Psalms 37:7 (GNB), “Be patient and wait for the Lord to act; don’t be worried about those who prosper or those who succeed in their evil plans.”
 
As I mentioned in the opening paragraph, there were biblical characters that made poor choices because of their lack of patience in God. On a positive note, there were biblical characters who had patience and trust in God. A few names are Abraham and Sarah (Genesis 12 onwards), Joseph (Genesis 37), Noah (Genesis 6), Job (Job 1) and Moses (Exodus 3). What is extraordinary about the names mentioned above are that all of them went through situations that required astonishing amount of patience and total trust in the Lord. We are not talking about a 5-day waiting period for the Lord to act. Some had to endure years of waiting to see the plan of the Lord manifest. Moses and the people of God had to endure the harsh conditions of the desert as they wandered the desert for 40-years for the Promised Land. Moses passed away within sight of the Promised Land. It took an incredible amount of patience for Moses, his family and the people of God to wait that long to finally reach the Promised Land that God had prepared for them.
 
As Christians, our lives will be a long journey with many ups and many downs. We are going to need a lot of patience to endure what life throws at us. We need to keep our focus on the Lord and not on the things of the flesh which will hinder our patience. In the coming years, the next step for Christ Church should be:
1) Building the foundation of the church with the Holy Spirit and not by what we think is right for church.
2) Growing the congregation and reaching out to the neighbouring communities.
3) Patiently waiting and preparing for the church-build to come to plan.
If it took Moses 40-years to wait patiently for the plan of God to manifest, why can’t we wait for at least 5-10yrs for the church to grow and prosper? Abraham, Sarah, Noah, Moses and Job waited patiently for the Lord to act upon them, placing their every ounce of trust in God, we should use them as examples of patience for us as we wait upon the Lord. 

I WILL DWELL IN THE HOUSE OF THE LORD FOREVER
This is a well known phrase which can be found in Psalms 23 and no-one really knows what awaits us beyond the barriers of time and space, but this image beckons to us like a bright star. An image of a place filled with warmth and light and a beautiful way to enter into the very presence of God. This is the same promise and imagery that Jesus used “in my Fathers house there are many rooms”.
At the very close of life we are close to God, just as is a new born baby when held in it’s mothers’ arms, and we have come full circle on the journey which has taken us all the way from the beginning to the end.

In moments of inspiration we feel the presence of God all around us, more comforting than the light of the summer sun. When the moment of inspiration fades and the clouds gather once more, the foundations of our faith are shaken. Now we are put to the test, and being tested we find a presence and a power greater than we can imagine. We are armed with God’s sure staff and in the wild places of our daily lives we can find our way with a sense of courage and confidence that comes even in the eye of a storm.

Now is the time between the times and we learn the value of the support that comes from our fellow Christians, and when breaking bread at Holy Communion we can revisit Psalm 23, “You prepare a table before me even in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil and my cup overflows”.

Finally, we look ahead beyond the barriers of time and space and we are filled with a deep conviction and confidence, and we can safely say “Surely goodness and mercy shall follow all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever”.
So, in the time between times, between life and death, between creation and consummation, between peace and war, with God as our guide the way shall be made plain and the passage sure throughout the journey we call our lives.
​
Tony Fensome

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Dear Christ Church,
 
Every Christmas my Great-Aunt Rose used to make the best sausage rolls in the world. While a Greggs sausage roll is a marvellous treat, the image from Greggs Advent calendar has certainly been ruffling feathers. Here the marketing department of the famed bakery has swapped baby Jesus for a sausage roll in the manger. Around the manger are two kings and a shepherd, who came to visit and worship Jesus (albeit not at the same time in the biblical story). In a way, the image does illuminate our obsession with food at Christmas. Having just read 'Woman and Home's guide to Christmas food I can confirm that festive food preparation and definitely not getting stressed about cooking that huge turkey is something that takes over too many minds. 
 
Throughout Advent at church this year we will be looking at the season of preparation that Mary and Elizabeth experienced as both came to be pregnant when they least expected it. We will be considering our own preparations for Christmas and how Jesus as God with us can transform lives in his fragility as a baby, suffering as crucified Lord and his power as Risen Saviour. We will gather to worship the Son of God who came to be with us, one of us as his family today.
So, while a sausage roll is a rather silly swap for Jesus, in it we remember that God came to be with us, just like food is part of our everyday lives. And too that just as Great-Aunt Rose used to bring out her sausage rolls at special occasions, Jesus is also at the heart of every special day we share as his family. 
 
We're so excited to share our first Christmas with you here at Christ Church and are looking forward to singing carols, making Christingles and sharing God's joy and love with you all. 
 
Love Ruth (and the Moriarty boys!)

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